May is the season for "marriage", and even though there is a saying that marriage cannot be held in the Year of the Rooster, it cannot prevent white wedding dresses from entering the auditorium. The following is about a man's imagination of wanting a wife, for those girls who hate marriage... A friend sent an email saying they want to bid farewell to their single days, and the wedding has been decided to be held on a certain day. This person used to be such a staunch celibate and playboy, what woman has such charm that can make her give up her ideals? This question has become a concern for everyone.
Once upon a time, people gathered together to discuss the standards of their wives and unanimously agreed to have beautiful women. Unscrupulous men are always unable to get rid of the dominance of lust, always fantasizing about one day suddenly pulling out a fairy and brazenly announcing that they want to have a hundred year old relationship with her, which can make other guys envious and shameless.
Of course, greed does not end with beauty, and they also hope that this fairy can be virtuous and virtuous enough to get close to the chef, mentor the husband, and educate the son. At the end of the discussion, a group of stinky men finally fell into the clich é d traditional trap. The standard for wives was set by the ancients for a long time: to leave the hall and enter the kitchen.
However, women nowadays are rarely willing to live in the shadow of the ancients, especially those of the heavenly level. Once they leave the hall, the possibility of wanting them back to the kitchen is extremely low, and even if they do, there are not many willing to serve the stinky man. They are well aware of the value of being an immortal in the world: if they want to use their beauty to defeat other men, they must first invite me home to support them. Remember, if it's for support, you can't do without luxurious clothing, luxury homes, and sports cars. Just think about it, only in those fragrant temples are the immortals shining brightly. Some men who lack the ability to provide for themselves and have lost their luck in the world can only invite back a heavenly immortal and watch her turn into a yellow faced woman amidst the smoke and fire. It is simply a waste of time, and nature cannot tolerate it.
Another serious problem is that even without celestial appearance, women nowadays still have wisdom and knowledge. Not to mention the hall, it's just a piece of cake to climb up to ten thousand people in a lecture hall. Such a woman even regards tradition as feces. Why should she talk loudly in front of so many people and even wash clothes and cook after being full of energy? There's no need for a man to provide for it, maybe even if you're in a good mood, you can still support a man.
In this way, it pities us men who cannot support fairies and have no psychological capacity to be supported by women. The ideal wife is so unattainable that she has to spend her days hanging out with women who clearly cannot become her own wife. Occasionally, a few brave women would suddenly say, "Let's get married," and the men would immediately find excuses to scatter the birds and beasts. Leaving behind these persistent women, they only curled their lips, thinking it was just a trial and error, and there was no need to run away. Over time, this group of people became the last single people in the city to want to be single. The gap between reality and ideals forced them to carry the name of celibacy, but it also became an excuse for them to indulge in debauchery: if they couldn't find a good one, they were not as handsome as themselves.
Speaking of that friend, going to his wedding, a bunch of unscrupulous men with deep questions want to see what kind of woman has such charm. As a result, the bride is the one who usually works the most with us, but occasionally scares us with marriage, but even if she kills us, she won't be taken home by us. Her appearance and talent are all ordinary. As they looked at each other from the front, the groom and bride came over to toast. Suddenly, the slightly raised lower abdomen beneath the wedding dress seemed to give the answer. Sure enough, as the bride turned to greet others, the shameful man salivated and whispered to us, 'Brothers, I want a child.'.
The unscrupulous man ultimately chose the most traditional needs.
The essence of sexual love has been unequal from ancient times to the present. When a man meets a beautiful woman, he can do anything, otherwise there would be no story of "not loving the river and the mountains and loving the beautiful woman". Of course, this does not include playboys who have never understood what love is - they do not consider the finish line, but rather consider conquering the next mountain peak. Fortunately, most men just hope for a true love, which is enough because it is already difficult. Finding a wife and a woman is a necessary proposition in a serious man's life.
A few days ago, I met an old cultural figure who was once an idol in the publishing industry in Hong Kong. Even though he is nearly half a century old, he still has long hair and looks that he used to. I think such a man must have read everything about men and women, so I asked him about his views on women using my identity as a descendant.
In fact, men all like beautiful women. Although kindness and kindness are the most important, men are definitely animals that control the brain visually. Even when they reach the age of "not exceeding the norm", they cannot ignore the temptation of the three sides, he continued, "But when it comes to the ultimate woman's dream, I think it is related to age
Indeed, we all know that first love is incredibly beautiful, but it is almost impossible to achieve success. The reason for this can be attributed to the boy at that time not knowing what kind of woman he wanted - even the standards of beauty and ugliness were vague. There is an example as evidence: a few days ago at a classmate gathering, I found that the "class flower" we were after had no beauty at all, to the point of being married with the ugliest girl in the class. It shows our aesthetic ignorance back then.
When a man finally knows how to distinguish beauty, but begins to make mistakes in his philosophy of life. Super male chauvinists believe that everything is okay as long as they like it, without considering their family environment or educational background. Therefore, many love tragedies are born when a couple enters society. Male chauvinism cannot bear the burden of life, only when it comes to sad breakups. Personally, I believe that men often suffer more harm in such situations - it's really tragic to have to bear the burden for many years and start over again.
I remember a boss saying to me, "A man at twenty has nothing, but a girl at twenty has everything; a man at forty has everything, but a woman at forty has nothing." So he advised me to focus on striving for everything at forty instead of playing with relationships at twenty. So, some good people have summarized the following definition. According to the current development status of our society, a man - who excludes the wealthy prince, the playboy who sees love as a game, and various other men who do not use marriage as the end point of love - is the most suitable partner for love:
Women who rely on themselves - financially independent women generally have a good mindset and the ability to think rationally;
A woman who looks a bit better than herself - this can satisfy a man's vanity, but not too much, otherwise the woman will feel that she has lost her marriage and will bully you for a lifetime;
Women with consistent aesthetics - If you enjoy watching science fiction movies, don't find a woman who enjoys watching literary films; If you like Faye Wong, don't find a girl who likes Li Yapeng, even though Wang and Li are already married.
The above three suggestions are for men in their thirties - this is the best time for men to talk about marriage. They are looking for women around the age of 25, because according to scientific analysis, the difference between men and women is 3 to 5 years old, which can make the aging process of men and women's faces more consistent. This way, men will not age slower than women, and the two can enjoy the romance of "growing old together" with peace of mind.
However, even with this plan, the ultimate dream of men about women is still full of danger when realized. The Hong Kong cultural elder said, "Just like me, today we can only use one principle to find the right woman, which is' whoever likes me, I like who '.