Do men really like silly girls? Should they also ask men to talk about it?
Silly vs considerate
My acquaintance with Mr. Z is online. He has always paid close attention to the studio I set up, and sometimes gives me some suggestions. When I mentioned this topic, he told his story.
I divide girls into three types: one is really stupid, with low IQ and EQ, and men don't like it; The second is smart girls; I like the third kind. They are smart, but they often act silly. Men have self-respect, and girls who pretend to be silly can take care of this feature everywhere. When men are satisfied with self-respect, they will love this girl very much when they look back; Men are prone to make small mistakes. The girl who acts silly will reduce the big things to small ones in a tolerant manner. The man who makes mistakes will be grateful to her.
I like to chat in the open air. At school reunion, I always play the leading role. My friend praises me for my knowledge. My girlfriend, Ke Ying, who is a doctor, often looks at me with approval. But sometimes, after the party, I will receive the "prescription" she gave me. Those notes are either hidden in my pocket or in a book. The words on them tactfully correct some of my statements - I am naturally very appreciative of her acting silly and reminding afterwards.
What moved me most was that she had forgiven me for hurting her feelings by pretending to be silly. Ke Ying and I have been in love for more than one year and are going to buy a house to get married. But at this time, my beautiful girlfriend Carrie, who had been in love with me for three years but had left me ruthlessly, suddenly came to me. I thought I had been bathed in the sunshine of love, and I would not have any ripples in my heart. But maybe, because I have loved her deeply and kept her again and again; Perhaps it is the self-respect and vanity hidden in the man's subconscious that makes me always look forward to the moment of saving face - Carrie's reappearance, which surprised me and made me feel at a loss. I frequently go to her appointment and use excuses such as overtime to prevaricate. The most dizzy thing was that I agreed to her request to travel to Hainan together. That day, I told Ke Ying that I would go on business tomorrow. She used to go to the airport to see me off as long as she was free, but I had a "ghost" in my heart. This time I tried to persuade her not to go to see me off the next day
The scenery in Hainan is very charming, but I don't want to enjoy it. The man who promised to take Carrie abroad never heard from him after he went to America; Now, Carrie has taken me as a lifesaving straw. She must ask me to work as a skilled immigrant in Canada. She is also planning our future with her own words. Because I love her, I used to be used to her capriciousness and selfishness, but now I have a lot of bitterness in my heart, and I begin to regret it.
I didn't dare to call Ke Ying, so I dialed the phone to my home. My mother told me that my father was not feeling well these days. Ke Ying was so good that she came to give him fluids again. My mother asked me, "Did you bully Ke Ying? Yesterday I casually asked, did you receive your call? Her eyes were red, but she insisted that they were uncomfortable. She also comforted your father lying in bed and said that she would always take care of him. Son, there are not many girls like this, you should cherish it!" After hanging up my mother's phone, I felt very sad, At this time, a sudden thought in my mind made me more sad: it seems that Ke Ying knows all this, she just pretends not to know! Carrie came to the company to look for me that day, and all her colleagues saw it; This time I took a vacation again, and the sensitive Ke Ying just made a phone call... I dare not think about it any more. I just feel like I'm going to lose Ke Ying.
That night, I thought a lot and I will not forget the dark days when Carrie left me. At that time, I was decadent to the extreme. It was Ke Ying who comforted my injured heart with every bit of love... But how much I hurt her feelings and self-esteem! I can't lose her. I want to go back and ask her for forgiveness.
On the flight back to Shanghai, I resolutely said "No!" to Carrie's various requests. This is the only time I have said "No" since I knew her. I know it was Ke Ying who gave me courage.
At the moment of reunion, Ke Ying held back her tears and pretended to be happy, which made me feel sad. I understood her mind, didn't explain anything, just held her in my arms with gratitude.