Sexual Health
What kind of sexual activity is boring and the dumbest types of sexual activity cannot occur
Sex is a very beautiful thing for people to enjoy life. However, there are many people in life who are mentally tormented due to their disharmonious handling of marital sexual issues. What is the reason? This is because they have violated some taboos in family life regarding sexual activities between couples
Sexual suspicion
Causing trouble
Liu Jun is a business supervisor of a company, young and handsome, with strong ability to handle affairs. The company often sends him on business trips, which makes his wife quite worried, afraid that his handsome face may be seduced by other women outside.
So, his wife took the following positive preventive measures against him: on the one hand, whenever Liu wanted to go on a business trip, her wife always showed her love actively. On the other hand, she expressed her true love and bound Liu Jun with emotions; The second is to feed Liu Jun before going out, in case he acts out on a whim. On the other hand, whenever Liu Jun comes back from a business trip, his wife is even more enthusiastic and eagerly serves him. She often eagerly falls in love with Liu Jun in a timely manner, with the intention of saying goodbye rather than getting married, which is due to her sexual interest; Secondly, it is possible to check whether the husband has betrayed her outside, although this method is not scientific and is only a feeling of one's own. If Liu Jun doesn't behave well when she returns, she will keep asking herself: Has her husband had an affair outside?
Once, due to missing the train number, Liu Jun returned in the middle of the night. After days of traveling, he was too tired. After a simple wash, he wanted to sleep and rest. However, his wife still had to perform her sexual testing procedure. Liu Jun unintentionally swept away his wife's interest and forced her to have sex, which clearly resulted in a lack of energy and ultimately failure. Liu's wife was unhappy, and the suspicion that had been hidden in her heart for a long time suddenly turned into jealousy and erupted. Seeing that his wife was not considerate at all, Liu Jun suspected that he had an affair. Thinking that his hard work in traveling was not for the sake of this family, Liu Jun immediately became furious. In a moment, the two of them quarreled.
Afterwards, the two of them fell into a cold war, and the warmth of their family was gone. Liu Jun's difference was still to be made, but everything had changed, and the marriage building seemed precarious.
Comment: As a wife, one should trust their husband and believe in his sexual morality. This is also a concrete manifestation of self-confidence. If there is no reason for suspicion, it will only stimulate and harm them, leading to estrangement between couples. Moreover, mutual trust between couples is the minimum requirement for establishing a marital relationship and the foundation of love. If the foundation is shaken, everything else will become meaningless, and marriage will also face disintegration.
Sexual parody
Over head
Ayan has an outgoing personality and enjoys joking. On her wedding night, after undressing and going to bed with her groom, Ah Xiang, her eyes closed slightly and her face turned red. She eagerly welcomed the arrival of that heartbreaking moment of happiness, but never thought that her husband's toy was really out of steam, ready to explode at the slightest touch, and her first sexual encounter failed like this. Her first expectation suddenly fell through, and she naturally felt somewhat dissatisfied. However, as she watched her husband, Ah Xiang, panting heavily and acting awkwardly like he had done something wrong, she suddenly felt funny. I didn't expect you, a man like me, to be so incompetent in doing this. A joking remark made Ah Xiang feel ashamed and short-lived. Later on, every time he had sex, poor Ah Xiang would unconsciously think of her words. He was always nervous and often collapsed and fell into battle. Over time, he suffered from severe premature ejaculation.
In fact, Ayan understood that her husband's premature ejaculation was too tense. However, such a joke caused her husband such great mental pressure and serious consequences that she did not expect, and it also left a shadow on her marriage life for a long time. She regretted it deeply. Later, with the guidance and treatment of a psychologist and the warmth and consideration of Ah Yan, her husband Ah Xiang finally regained his strength.
Comment: Wives should maintain their husbands' sexual self-esteem, and sexual jokes should not go too far. Although unintentional, sometimes it can harm the other person's sexual self-esteem. Human sexual psychology is so fragile, especially men's sexual self-esteem. Even a small amount of harm can cause unimaginable fatal harm.
Sexual endurance
Too farfetched
Xiaoqiang has made a fortune in business in recent years. My wife, Xiaomei, takes good care of men to prevent them from getting bad when they have money, especially in their sexual life. She doesn't want to leave excuses for her husband's sexual smuggling because she can't satisfy him in sexual life. Therefore, despite being a bit overwhelmed by Xiaoqiang's frequent sexual demands, Xiaomei also persevered; Sometimes, she even tries to show a very engaged attitude in order to please Bo Xiaoqiang, but when Xiaoqiang reaches the peak of sexual pleasure, she is physically and mentally exhausted and forced to smile.
Once, Xiaoqiang was drunk and wanted to have sex, and she gently let him do it as usual. Perhaps it was a burst of drunkenness. Xiao Qiang had sex for a long time, but still couldn't fully enjoy it. After pausing for a while, he came back again, and in this way, he struggled for several rounds. Xiaomei was already somewhat reluctant and had little sexual desire. The strong discomfort and mental pain in her genitals finally made her angry and firmly refused her husband. From then on, when Xiaomei thought of that sexual encounter, she felt a lingering fear. She no longer had sex with Xiaoqiang as she had before, and the original harmony between the couple no longer existed.
Comment: Couples who cooperate with each other in a neutral life may have varying degrees of sexual differences, and it is not advisable to exchange one party's humiliation and burden for the other's happiness. Scientifically and reasonably adjusting this sexual difference requires both spouses to be considerate of each other and constantly explore and summarize in long-term sexual practice.