Post Date April, 15 2023
The nature of the work determines the mode of work
Mr. Wang, 40 years old, manager of a computer company
People in our industry really feel guilty when they mention their wives and children. "I can't eat many dinners at home a year. I not only entertain clients, but sometimes I have to go along with them to play bowling, massage, or karaoke in order to attract big clients. Sometimes I just stay up all night and come home in the morning just in time for my wife to work and my children to go to school.". Sometimes I see this side in one day.
Wife and children are also used to it now. They understand it, but if they don't understand it, they can't help it. The nature of their work determines the way they work. Occasionally, I go back early to have dinner with them, and they are all so happy that they feel a bit overjoyed. This moved and saddened me. Although it provided them with good material conditions, I also know that what they need more is a "husband" and "father.". There is no way. Since ancient times, loyalty and filial piety have not been able to achieve both ends. Let me make up for it when I quit this profession.
In fact, my wife is also worried, "If I didn't come back all night, wouldn't it be some woman who tripped me up?" She often asks me half truthfully. "I can only explain with an excellent attitude.". After all, it's impossible for any wife to have any doubts or thoughts about this situation, which indicates that she cares about us and cares about us. We should know and cannot be bothered by this. Moreover, she reminded me to reduce the chance of making mistakes. Nowadays, there are too many temptations in society, and my wife should be more strict.
The outside world is wonderful, and the night at home is monotonous
Mr. Dai, 29 years old, a futures company employee
To be honest, I often come back late, sometimes because of necessary entertainment, sometimes because I want to make excuses not to go home. Why? In this sentence, it can be summarized as follows: The outside world is very exciting, and the night at home is very monotonous.
My house is not big, with three rooms, a total of only about 50 square meters. However, we live together with a couple, a one year old child, and a nanny. We gathered together at night, so full that we dare not even take big steps when walking. Coupled with the crying of the child and the busy work of the wife and nanny, alas, I, as a master, always look at the superfluous.
Why don't you take care of the children at home? I also want to, but that little guy won't let anyone hug him or find me when he has a * * * mother. Moreover, taking care of children is not as good as a woman as a man. He is clumsy and clumsy, and if he can't do it well, his wife will be in a hurry. If I don't think I can do anything, it's better to just hang around and wait for training. Of course, I have to find a reason to work overtime and have a party with my buddies. Anyway, she can't take care of me.
Going out usually involves gathering with friends, drinking alcohol, playing cards, surfing the internet, chatting, and sometimes going to a dance hall to have a good time. My wife sometimes gets angry because I often return late and calls me on her mobile phone. At this time, she can't go back immediately, or it's just a scolding. When her anger subsides and the child sleeps, she's tired and then goes back. With a few sweet words, it's easy to coax her away.
Sometimes I really miss the time when I fell in love with my wife and just got married, when the world of two was so good. After work in the evening, either come back to cook together, or stroll around the street, eat dinner and watch a movie together, which is called colorful. Now, as soon as the little guy is born, his wife quickly enters the role of "mother". After working all day, he hugs his son and shouts "sweetheart", making me a redundant person. Hey hey, don't mention it, I'm really a bit jealous of my son.
"When I move to a big house next year, my children will also be older, and they may feel better.". Actually, I really want to be with their mother.
Just to make a name for it earlier
Mr. Li, 32 years old, civil servant
As a civil servant, there seems to be no reason to often return late. In everyone's mind, civil servants are "on duty". They come to work and leave after work. There are no special circumstances where they should go home on time. "But I often come back late, sometimes working overtime to write materials for my leaders, sometimes reading books myself in the office to recharge my batteries.". I am currently reading a second degree and a graduate class in the self examination at the same time, with many books to read and papers to write. I only have to work overtime at night.
"I am a strong career oriented person, and now the social competition is quite fierce, and the pressure is quite high. I can't afford not to hurry up on my own.". Besides, there is a heavy family responsibility on our shoulders. My wife and I are college classmates, and she is also a very motivated person who supports me very much. The child is still young and is attending kindergarten. Both parents are out of town, and her family cannot live without her. In order for me to concentrate on my work, she has undertaken all the housework, and I am very grateful to her.
