Post Date April, 15 2023
I'm a man I love private money? If a man dared to say so in the past, this man would be classified as living in a very mundane, humble and trivial category, which is a stain on marriage. But in today's open society, what is private money for men?
Who has seen a rich man talk about his private money?
Gong Jian (private enterprise boss)
I am a person who never saves private money. It is not that I trust my wife. It is just that I have enough money to make myself unnecessary to care about the words "private money". Since I don't care about it, let alone what private money to save. To be clear, there is one sentence: Have you ever seen a rich man talk about his private money? So people like me who don't have to worry about money at all can't be close to private money.
In my opinion, most of the men who want to save private money or are starting to save private money or have already saved a sum of private money are not only humble and careful but also helpless in life, because the money he earns to support his family must be very limited, and it is impossible to take care of the family in any way, so the task of taking care of the family will be completely pushed away, Why don't you just leave it to a woman to run a family and leave a little selfish and private money to make yourself happy quietly.
A man with private money will not make his wife tired
Di Yun (singer)
First of all, it depends on who is in charge of the financial power. If the man is in charge, I think the problem of the man's private money will not exist. However, if you want to pay your salary to your wife and follow the "organization" arrangement, you have to engage in some "underground activities". If you go out for entertainment and meet friends, you will inevitably spend some money. You can't apply to your wife for "financial allocation" again and again. Just like bank deposit, even with the all-in-one card, there are always accidents and inconveniences. The wallet must have some money in case of urgent need.
Therefore, it is human nature for men without financial power to prepare some private money to deal with minor matters that have nothing to do with principles. The details of the matter, so that the wife came to ask in person, is it not that she took much trouble to deal with it? There is an old Chinese saying, "It is not clear who can see the fish pool". Couples also need some "difficult to be confused". If you are motherly, do you force her to be confused, and keep her eyes wide open all day, and she is not tired?
Men's private money is comical
Shine the edge (university teacher)
Private money, also known as "personal money" in the old days, is the only little secret that women without social and economic status care about themselves. Men need to accumulate "personal money". Although there is a little understandable reason in today's high feminist awareness, the picture of big men holding small "personal money" is always comical. What's more, when women are in urgent need at home, they often take the initiative to donate and confiscate, while men's "body" is often accompanied by "small under the leather robe" (Lu Xun's words), which is even more flattering.
Life without private money is very difficult
Benlei (civil servant)
The following story is true: one afternoon shortly after marriage, the wife in charge of financial power went to work earlier than me. When I was about to leave, I found that there was only a 2 yuan note in my pocket, and forgot to ask her for money. Although I rummaged at home in anger, I couldn't find a penny. I was in a hurry to go out for business again, so I had to go to the bus stop and scold my wife in my heart. When getting on the train, he begged a passenger to share this 2 yuan note with me and gave me the 1 yuan in his hand. I took a bus in Guangzhou and automatically coin one yuan. On the way to and home, I have been praying: I hope the bus doesn't break down halfway, or I can only walk home in the scorching sun.
When my wife came back in the evening, I reported to her that I had to walk home if the car broke down. The wife with a heart of charity quite understands her husband's sufferings, and is very generous after some words of "comfort" - "Well, I'll leave a few more dollars for you next time." What can I do with a few dollars? My wife has always opposed my saving private money. In fact, when I have no money, as long as I am in a good mood, I will also be happy and free, and the temporary difficulties or embarrassments will pass quickly.
After compilation:
Men have different opinions on whether they love private money. In fact, it is just like carrots and vegetables. Things in the world are right and wrong. If you want to love private money, you should love it boldly. However, compared with men who do not love private money, they will live a more honest and wealthy life, both mentally and materially.
