When you understand the desire for free space in a man's heart, you will feel that home to a man is sometimes a cage in a zoo - in a cage, the real desire is still the unrestrained forest and grassland.
It is said that men are highly aggressive because their freedom, freedom, activity, and communication are affected.
Therefore, men should adopt a "free range" approach.
The 5 favorite states for men:
Private space
Many newly married men complain to their buddies that there is no longer the old days! "The old days" mean being free to spend time and do whatever you want. But once married, a man feels like he has become a "yo-yo ball" in his wife's hand - running a little farther, he is pulled back by the thread in her hand
Dynamic relaxation
In addition to sleeping and necessary work, men always seem to enjoy movement - they are passionate about outdoor sports such as playing ball games and mountain climbing, and of course there is no doubt that even at home, they also need to have music to accompany them. "If a man wants to stay quietly, he will be very bored.".
Informal
Take off your shoes and toss them with your feet instead of putting them in the shoe cabinet when you go home; Sleeping late in the morning without making a quilt; Brush the dishes after using them up; There are many such things. Men are most afraid of being entangled in the details of life. So women's rigid rules only make men nervous.
Speak up
"What can't be said directly?" Many men have complained like this. Women love to express their ideas in a roundabout way, and no wise man can keep up with women's brains. Especially after conflicts occur, women adopt a "ignore" attitude - not speaking, not having access to the phone, not eating, not staying in a room, and so on. In fact, men want to deal with problems between two people in a simple way.
Not willing to finance
If men spend as much as they earn when they are single, don't expect them to change after marriage. They feel that personal finance is a very troublesome matter, and it is better to focus their experiences on hobbies. So men leave the financial power of the family to women because they are too lazy to bother.