Whether a woman is happy or not depends on how her husband treats his wife. So when you look at his wife, you know his nature. A capable wife and husband are generally women with ordinary career and often laugh. The husband usually treats her very well. Women in marriage are afraid of men's cheating, but there are more terrible things than cheating. So what kind of men are more terrible than cheating? Let's take a look:
Many women are dissatisfied with their husbands. Far from that, there are thousands of messages on the backstage and microblog every day telling how bad their husbands are.
For example, after a day's work, I dragged my tired body home, while my husband was already at home, but sat on the sofa playing games and waiting for me to come back to cook. I never knew how to help myself. Is this family my own?
2. For example, when he was sick, had a fever, and was thirsty, his husband watched TV in the living room and asked him to pour himself a glass of water. He called for it countless times, and finally came in impatiently. He put a glass of cold water heavily on his bedside. At that moment, his heart was colder than that glass of cold water;
3. For example: I also work to make money, and I have been paying for my family since I got married. One day, I saw a favorite dress, which was a little expensive, but I bought it with the idea of loving myself once. When I returned home, I showed it to my husband with joy. The other party was furious when he knew the price, but forgot that you had not bought a decent dress for years, and usually bought it for him and his children
If I heard these things when I was a child, I must be indignant and think that these men are just jerks. But now I have more contact with them, and gradually found another rule: many of these men are not so bad at first. They were also men with good character in other people's eyes. They also wanted to be a good husband, and they also performed well.
Otherwise, if this is the case at the beginning, they can only marry a wife unless the majority of women are brain-watered. Otherwise, few women are willing to marry them.
What kind of man is more terrible than cheating
So, many women say that these men disguise themselves too well and reveal their nature after marriage. Is this really the case?
We must recognize a fact:
In this world, there are not many ready-made excellent men, and there are not many men who are naturally devoid of humanity
; Most men are neither good nor bad. If they meet a woman who has the bottom line, principles and human nature, they will gradually develop towards maturity and responsibility;
But if you meet a woman who only knows how to give and completely takes over the role of his mother
He will also gradually become lazy and selfish, and develop towards a scum man, because he knows that no matter how he is, there will always be a woman who keeps paying for him and taking care of everything for him. Then, the inertia in other people's sex will be completely stimulated and become the same as the above men.
There are always many women who are indignant and ask: women care more about the family than men, and are more willing to pay for the family. Is it wrong?
My dear girl, you are really wrong. It is not great to pay without any money. On the contrary, it is stupid.
People say that a woman is a man's school. You should guide him to pay for your children and for his family. These are the assignments you should assign to him, rather than finishing all his homework by yourself. In the end, you should blame him for not doing anything.
Although women are responsible for their own growth and men are responsible for their own growth, at the very least, we should not deprive them of the opportunity to grow up.
If you find that he has a bad sign, let him know clearly: no one will get used to you, and I will treat you as you treat me! It's not that no matter how much he goes too far, you should take all the orders!
The above is the introduction of what kind of man is more terrible than cheating. So when a woman looks for a man, she should keep her eyes open and see clearly. Don't let his sweet words deceive you. Do you want to be her wife, a lazy man with no ideal and no goal? If you are willing, there is no way. Everyone's lifestyle and life goal are not necessarily, as long as you feel happy.