Adolescence is the best period in life. At this time, women begin to know what sex is. What are the psychological characteristics of adolescent women?
A number of surveys have shown that China's teenagers are sexually mature earlier than in the 1950s and 1960s. The forward inclination of sexual maturity brings about the early emergence of sexual psychology. According to cognitive psychology, the increase of sexual information has led to great changes in people's sexual concepts. All of these frequently stimulate the brains and reproductive glands of young girls, and promote the development of sexual physiology in advance, which will also inevitably promote the development of sexual psychology. However, with the development of social productivity, social life becomes more and more complex, and girls' social psychological maturity is delayed. Under the condition of social and psychological immaturity, they lack scientific understanding of the germinating psychology generated by physiological development and physiological development, and are prone to fall into blindness.
Psychological development of young girls, general experience
1. The sexual consciousness is vague, and the desire to communicate with the opposite sex. In order to attract the attention of the opposite sex, some girls change their clothes three times a day, which is different everywhere.
2. Dream and masturbate, want to enter into non-fiction, dream during the day, and masturbate further. In the past, people believed that masturbation only existed in boys, but in fact, girls also masturbated.
3. Imitation and experiment, bold practice of sexual life. At all stages of girls' psychological development, the behavior of paying attention to the opposite sex shows a very complex and contradictory mood, hoping to be welcomed by the opposite sex, burying this desire in the heart, showing restraint and apathy, reserve and shame.
The sign of sexual psychological maturity is that the occurrence of sexual behavior is based on the combination of sex, spirit and flesh, sex and love. Therefore, the maturity of sexual psychology is closely related to the maturity of social psychology. In our society, human sexual behavior is not only natural, but also social and spiritual. What kind of person do you have sex with? The performance of sexual behavior reflects a person's sense of social responsibility and personality characteristics.
The maturity of sexual psychology needs a process, and the two sexes need constant adjustment and adaptation, especially the sublimation of feelings, to reach a perfect state. Adolescent girls' sexual psychology is in an immature state and has great plasticity. It is possible to cultivate healthy sexual psychology, develop freely and slide into the abyss of sexual crimes through positive education for them.
Sichuan survey shows that early sex life is an important feature of prostitutes, and some of them have sex at the age of 12 or 13. The sexual psychological maturity of these prostitutes was measured with the sexual psychological survey scale designed by Professor Cao Xingwu of the Sino-Japanese Friendship Hospital. The measurement results showed that 435 people (70%) scored below 15 points (immature), 185 people (29%) scored 15-25 points (mature), and 6 people (1%) scored above 25 points (mature).
These prostitutes have a high frequency of sexual intercourse, but most of them have immature sexual psychology. Their sexual behavior is mainly driven by sexual desire and has no basis for love. The research on sexual psychology by Chinese scholars is still at the beginning stage, and the number of people is very small.
The importance of sexual psychological health to people's sexual behavior is not known. Therefore, even in schools with good sex education in adolescence, middle school students are only limited to the education of physical health knowledge, and sexual psychological problems are rarely related. However, sexual psychological education is indispensable for shaping the healthy personality of young girls. The education in this area should continue to create conditions and develop gradually.
They masturbate and masturbate, often in the mix of guilt and pleasure. The traditional idea that masturbation is an improper thing makes them feel ashamed of their behavior, but the sexual agitation makes them in an uncontrollable state. They need to speak, and can't find a bosom friend. Girls with strong dependence need the care and help of school and family.
The spontaneous development of sexual psychology may lead to two kinds of undesirable tendencies: one is that driven by sexual instinct and sexual psychology, the sexual experience and sexual attempt are carried out prematurely due to ignorance and curiosity. There are two situations when sexual relations occur at the early stage of puberty. First, under the influence of the feudal concept of chastity, he thought that he was already a man who was not virtuous. Since then, he was burdened with a heavy burden of regret, and could not lift his head, or he fell down in a broken jar, which made him cheap.
Second, sexual desire starts prematurely, sexual desire surges, sexual excitement, and falls into the state of pursuing sexual pleasure. This is the way that some girls develop from sexual experience to sexual crime. Sexual crimes can easily form a dynamic stereotype and become a habit of obstinate sex addiction, which is difficult to change.
This is because some girls are confused with male hooligans in the night of flight, and their parents are hard to turn back, no matter how they beat, scold, close or beg. The second bad trend is that some young girls regard the sexual psychology in adolescence as ugly, have a strong sense of shame and guilt, and regard themselves as downstream people. They form a closed mind, withdrawn, inferiority complex, and introverted.
Today, some older unmarried women in their forties spent their adolescence in the Cultural Revolution. Their sexual psychology was severely suppressed, so that they could not have normal social interaction with the opposite sex and enter marriage life in the future. The maturity of human sexual psychology depends on the maturity of sexual physiology, which does not mean the maturity of sexual psychology.