What is the safest contraceptive method for severe consequences of extracorporeal ejaculation

Years ago, due to lack of experience, the likelihood of contraceptive failure was high. What is the safest contraceptive method to use for newlyweds and young people? During this period, due to work needs, I was transferred to the community for free consultations and consultations. After I finished my final health knowledge lecture, a young woman came to my temporary clinic and said something she couldn't say, hoping to help me, so she sat down and spoke.

The patient is her husband, a young and energetic government official who can be said to have been quite successful in his career, but there are things in his life that make him melancholic. That's every time he goes through marital life, he's careless and powerless. I want him to go to the doctor on his own, but he doesn't want to, so she has to negotiate instead.

Due to time constraints, the community did not have corresponding examination equipment. Based on her condition, I determined that it was functional impotence, so I wrote a Chinese medicine prescription and asked him to take it for 1-2 weeks. Two weeks later, the phone informed us that the patient's condition did not improve at all. Considering that the patient is receiving medication treatment, they should undergo examination. In order to gain a more comprehensive understanding of the reasons for his illness, I suggest that she take her husband to the male clinic of the hospital for some examinations and consultations.

1. Patient situation

After careful inquiry, it was discovered that women's physical condition is not suitable for contraception. Husbands who are concerned about the side effects of using contraceptives do not like using condoms and find sexual intercourse uncomfortable. However, for more than 8 years, every time they have sex, both parties (especially the wife) are worried about pregnancy. Starting from the moment the penis is inserted into the vagina, they consider how to expel semen from the vagina, feeling very nervous. Women often show signs of avoiding stimulation from their husband's penis. The emergence of this mentality not only leads to insufficient excitement in every sexual activity, but also prevents the achievement of orgasm. Over time, the husband began to dislike sexual activity from the bottom of his heart, leading to a decline in sexual function.

2. Medical understanding

Due to prolonged incomplete sexual activity, coupled with mental tension and a lack of orgasm on both sides, the man gradually loses interest in sexual activity, leading to decreased sexual function.

3. Rehabilitation plan

After discovering the correct cause of the disease, I provided the following guidance to their couple:

(1) Before finding a more scientific contraceptive method, women should use contraceptives and safe period contraception methods (specific guidance). Men can also use condoms appropriately for contraception. Because high-quality condoms nowadays have no impact on the comfort of sexual life. The main cause of discomfort is psychological effects.