What is the reason why ejaculation has no pleasure? What are the methods for men to achieve orgasm

Mr. Chen, who was in the hospital, had such a secret. When I was in middle school, I masturbated. It was normal at that time. As long as there was ejaculation, there was a strong orgasm. I couldn't control it. Later, I didn't know when to start. There was no pleasure in ejaculation. I am 32 years old now. I have been married and have children. I haven't had any pleasure in ejaculation for 10 years. What's the matter?

Sexual medicine experts said that at present, there are many men who will ask about the lack of sex appeal, which seemed to be the "patent" of women in the past. For most men, orgasmic pleasure comes at the same time as ejaculation, so some people will misunderstand that men ejaculate is orgasm. In fact, these are two different sexual reactions, just happened at the same time. Experts pointed out that ejaculation is the result of a series of muscle contractions, not the orgasmic pleasure that some people say is caused by ejaculation of semen.

There are some ways for men to achieve orgasm

In fact, men's orgasms are also graded. To get the best orgasm, it is suggested to start from the following aspects.

Touch the perineum. The perineum of a man is between the testicles and buttocks. Dr. Arlene Goldman, co-author of The Secret of Sexual Pleasure, said that this part was covered with nerve endings and was sensitive to external stimuli. Some men said that when they press on the perineum, they will have multiple orgasms because the prostate can be stimulated externally through the perineum. During sex, female partners can put their fingers on the part of their partners to press and stimulate.

Kegel training. Erix Robbie, a clinical sex expert in Philadelphia, USA, said that Kegel training is a contraction exercise for pelvic floor muscles (love muscles), which is very helpful to improve the sexual ability of men and women. If this part of the muscle is developed, men can control it freely during sex and increase the intensity of orgasm. Robbie suggested that men can exercise to use pelvic floor muscles to lift and lower the penis.

Delay the climax. A recent study in the Journal of Sexual Research advocates the "climax edge" technique, which means consciously delaying the arrival of orgasm until the most perfect and intense orgasm is achieved. The study found that when a man approaches 90% of the degree of orgasm, he can stop, take a rest, and then "sprint" again, then his final orgasm will be more intense.