Sexual Health
What is the reason for the failure of the first sexual encounter? What to do if the first roommate fails
What was the reason for the first failure? Men and women always see their first sexual encounter as a turning point in their lives. The situation may be the first time a woman is very nervous, and the first unpleasant night has passed like this. So, what is the reason for men and women's first failure? Let's work together!
There are generally the following points to the first unsuccessful attempt:
1. Lack of preparation before sexual intercourse
Because women's sexual response is slower than men's, and their nature is more reserved and shy, especially when they first come into contact with the male external genitalia, if the groom desires or even rudely releases their sexual desire, it will inevitably lead to sexual failure. For example, doing more preparation before sexual intercourse to stimulate the bride's libido, such as hugging, touching, kissing, and other flirting actions, when arousing the bride's sexual impulse, and then engaging in sexual intercourse can provide both parties with psychological and physiological satisfaction.
2. Lack of understanding of the bride's reproductive organs
The female vagina is a muscular elastic tube with good stretchability. Why can't the penis sometimes be inserted into the vagina? The tension of vaginal orifice is affected by hymen and muscle ring of vaginal orifice. With the insertion of the penis, the hymen is jacked up, and the tension contraction of the vaginal orifice makes it difficult to insert the penis. As the number of sexual intercourse increases, the muscle ring expands and extends to varying degrees, causing the vaginal opening to relax.
In addition, after female sexual desire, there is an increase in secretion from the vestibular glands of the external genitalia, lubrication of the vaginal opening, congestion of the genitalia causing a large amount of fluid to seep out of the vagina, elevation of the cervix, dilation of two-thirds of the vagina, and elongation of the vaginal cavity by 1/4. Only in this way can the penis be smoothly inserted into the vagina. If you don't understand these common sense, you are eager to have rough and unprepared sex, the vagina is not swollen and dilated, the vaginal opening and vagina are not lubricated, one penis is inserted into the vagina causing stagnation, the other is exacerbated by a woman's pain, and even leads to vaginal spasms and sexual failure. Forced insertion may also cause tearing or significant bleeding of the female perineum and vagina
3. My body is too tired.
Newly married couples often go through very tiring preparation work before marriage and are busy welcoming guests on the wedding day. At night, some friends caused trouble in their bridal chamber. Therefore, the bride and groom are very tired in the bridal chamber, and their mental state is low or uneasy. Without sexual knowledge, it is difficult to achieve harmony and happiness in sexual life.