Post Date August, 27 2023
How to enjoy perfect sex and let both you and him/her be released from this sport. The male and female piston movement is not just about simple entry and exit. How to enjoy perfect sex can one release their desires.
People always have unrealistic "assumptions" about sex. For example, a man should have a robust penis, an erection that must be firm and tireless throughout the night. This is clearly a wishful thinking 'daydream', but many people take it for granted and even use it as a measure of sexual ability. "Professor Zeng, a specially appointed sexual health expert on Hexi Island, warned that these unrealistic fantasies can lead to serious consequences, People who have no problems also begin to worry about their sexual performance, which may induce a series of Sexual dysfunction over time.
How long is the most perfect sexual duration? The answer given by researchers at Birland College in Pennsylvania, USA is: 7-13 minutes!
This is the first large-scale study conducted on the duration of sexual activity. Researchers randomly surveyed thousands of people in the United States and Australia and found that substantive sexual activity (calculated from the start of sexual organ contact) is most suitable in 7-13 minutes. Most respondents, especially men, reported that having substantive sexual intercourse for more than 13 minutes increases fatigue and makes it difficult to recover physical strength; If it takes less than 7 minutes, there will be a sense of unfinished business.
"Persistence" was originally a Buddhist term that refers to persisting in something without detachment. Later, it refers to stubbornness or rigidity, and also refers to perseverance. If one persistently pursues major life events such as career prospects and life goals, it is certainly beyond reproach. It's better to 'let nature take its course' instead of being persistent about sex. Although sexual function is a kind of instinct, whether it can play normally is inextricably linked with some knowledge, concepts, beliefs, etc. in the brain. For those misconceptions and delusions that can affect the normal functioning of sexual function, we may refer to them as' sexual attachment '.
Sexual persistence is the great enemy of sexual life. For couples who can engage in normal sexual intercourse, sexual attachment makes it difficult for them to achieve a perfect state of sexual life. Some people with serious sexual obsession may cause impotence, premature ejaculation, frigidity and other Sexual dysfunction. There is no sexual pleasure at all, but it adds a lot of pain because of sex.
There are various forms of sexual attachment.
Some are very serious, some are mild, some are difficult to overcome, and some are easy to eliminate. Everyone's sexual attachment also varies. Here are some common situations of attachment in sexual life.
Time persistence: This time may not be the appropriate time for sexual intercourse; Is the duration of sexual intercourse too short or too long
Location persistence: Is this place (outside the bedroom bed) a suitable place for sexual activity
Environmental persistence: The environment for sex is too dark, too bright, and too noisy; May be seen, heard, or guessed
Age persistence: I am old now and not as old as before; There is a significant age difference between the two parties; At this age of having sex, is it "old and not serious
Position persistence: Is this position suitable? Can women be on top? Can a man be below? Is this position feasible? Will this position harm the body
Role persistence: Women cannot show initiative, they cannot show strong sexual desire, and they cannot show sexual satisfaction; Men must take the initiative
Virgo persistence: both wanting to maintain virginity and wanting to fall in love; The man's anxiety about whether the woman is a virgin; Knowing that the other party is not a virgin's trouble
Pregnancy obsession: Some people are afraid of getting pregnant every time they have sex, especially those who engage in premarital sexual intercourse; Some people have taken contraceptive measures but are always worried about the unreliable results, which makes them fearful; Some people cannot conceive, but they yearn for it all the time, hoping that this sexual activity can lead to pregnancy
Sexual organ persistence: one's penis is too small, too big, too long, too short, too hard, too soft; My vagina is too big, too small, too tight, too loose
Frequency persistence: Too many times of sexual intercourse, too few; Feeling less capable than others
Ejaculation persistence: Loss of semen is harmful to the body and can shorten lifespan; Ejaculation is too fast, too slow; Semen is too much, too little, too thin, too thick
High tide persistence: both parties must reach Orgasm at the same time, otherwise it is disharmonious and incomplete; Every time you have sex, you have to have an orgasm, or you will fail
Love persistence: does he/she really love me? Just for venting or for real love? Sexual intercourse can only be an expression of love, and sex and love cannot be separated
Method persistence: Only traditional sexual intercourse is feasible, while other sexual intercourse methods that are different from conventional ones are promiscuous, abnormal, and infeasible
Fantasy persistence: having sex with a spouse, not thinking about others; Do you want to tell the other party about the Sexual fantasy in their mind during sex
Lust and persistence: Do I appear too lascivious and lascivious like this? Is our sexual relationship not like true and pure love, but just a mere physical greed
Tool persistence: Sexual tools are dirty; Using sexual tools is a manifestation of sexual impotence
Race persistence: what others will think of this alien relationship; Does the other party have racial discrimination against me
Inferiority and persistence: She (he) is too beautiful and elegant, I am not worthy of her (him); Can I satisfy him/her? Am I clumsy in my movements; My sexual abilities don't seem to be as strong as others
Disease persistence: whether sexual behavior is too dangerous, whether it will be infected with AIDS, whether it will be infected with syphilis, gonorrhea or other sexually transmitted diseases; Will it revive the original disease
Focus on sex
Physiological knowledge tells us that when a person is doing something, they will form an excitation zone in the relevant parts of the brain, and the activities of other parts of the brain will be correspondingly suppressed to ensure that they can focus on doing the task well. As the saying goes: one mind cannot be used twice. Doing is even more so.
In sexual life, any kind of persistence can cause varying degrees of anxiety, resulting in the formation of another excitatory point in the brain, which affects the normal functioning of sexual function, hinders the smooth progress of sexual life, and even leads to sexual failure. Therefore, how to effectively eliminate various sexual attachments is a necessary condition for achieving harmonious and fulfilling sexual life. Some sexologists say that 'the brain is the largest sexual organ', which is exactly what they mean.
Removing sexual attachment means removing some unnecessary worries, anxieties, worries, fears, shame, self blame, inferiority, and other internal "obstacles", so as to open up the mind and freely and carefree to do "love" and "love", in order to achieve the most perfect harmony and highest satisfaction between both parties.
However, there is no one correct way to remove constraints, eliminate sexual attachment, open up emotions, and open up the mind, which is suitable for everyone. Everyone has their own sexual attachment, and there should be specific solutions for each person. You can "save yourself" or liberate your mind through sexual counseling, overcome sexual persistence, and fully enjoy the joy of sexual life.
Passionate and stimulating sexual life is something that everyone is fascinated by, but every time they have sex, they want to have sexual pleasure without the assistance of perfect sexual methods.
1、 More morning sex
When you don't want to see or smell a drunken Casual sexual relationship at night, experts recommend that you lie on the right side of your Casual sexual relationship in the morning, lift your right leg, place his right leg under your right leg and on your left leg, and ensure that his right thigh is between your legs. Put his penis into your vagina and adjust your upper body so that you can kiss each other comfortably. This position is also very suitable when you are tired. Experts point out that this position can make the penis very easy and comfortable to enter, without the need for mutual support on both sides, and can also slightly change positions.
2、 Better Kissing
Experts say that lips are very sensitive, but in fact, only YD has more nerves and higher sensitivity than lips. Experts suggest constantly changing your performance based on the following five kissing techniques.
1. Lips touching: You and your Casual sexual relationship slide between the lip edges, just like you catch pudding falling from a spoon.
2. Tongue manipulation: The tissue below the tongue is very sensitive, like the protrusion below the upper lip.
3. A loving nibble.
4. Sucking: Sucking the other person's tongue stimulates the salivary glands below, but the other person produces sweet saliva
3、 Choose a "better" time for sex
According to the study of 115 women aged 23-45, on the fifth day after your menstrual period, your Orgasm frequency is higher and more pleasant than any time in this month. In line with this, they can experience the best Orgasm at this time every month. Experts say that the best time for women to feel is after the bleeding stops and before Premenstrual syndrome appears. It is suggested that 5-10 days after the end of each menstruation is the best time for you to have sex.
4、 A "better" and better Orgasm
Enjoy the most passionate and fulfilling sex to the fullest, and fully immerse yourself in the joy that sex brings. According to a recent survey, women who have enjoyed the highest degree of sexual satisfaction and the longest duration of Orgasm are the least likely to be distracted during sexual intercourse. Experts say that means they focus on arousing sexual desire and the pleasure it brings during sexual intercourse.
Because they are distracted during sexual intercourse, they never get the satisfaction brought by Orgasm. The main reason is that they are worried about their appearance during sexual intercourse. If you are worried about your appearance during sex and feel uneasy and dissatisfied with it, it is difficult for both parties to continue sexual intercourse in a pleasant manner. Here are some ways to worry about your appearance that prevent you from fully engaging in beautiful sexual intercourse.
1. Turn off the light during sexual intercourse and engage in it in the dark;
2. Never let your Casual sexual relationship see you naked;
3. I'm very worried about how your Casual sexual relationship views your image during sexual intercourse. In order to prevent anxiety about your appearance, I can't make myself enjoy pleasure in sexual intercourse and let myself completely indulge in the feeling of mutual care, touching, caressing and kissing. Try it tonight.
5、 A 'better' position
Everyone knows YD, but you may not know that the cervix is also a joyful center. The cervix is rich in highly sensitive Free nerve ending. According to a women's research organization, only half of 106 healthy and knowledgeable women know that repeatedly rubbing the cervix with the tip of the penis will lead to Orgasm. Doctor of medical research believes that more women may never reach Orgasm in this way. Lie flat and try to lift your legs as much as possible to shorten the vaginal duct and make it easier for the penis to come into contact with the cervix.
