Seeking stimulation during sexual intercourse is a normal manifestation of human physical desire, but stealing someone else's sex is not affected. It seems to be an illegal form in foreign countries, with some looking for their sexual skills, some for stimulation, and some for happiness!
We really want to find reference materials to compare and evaluate our sexual life status, and further adapt and improve our sexual life based on this.
With the progress of society, large-scale surveys and in-depth research on people's sexual life status can be conducted and published, enabling us to better understand others and ourselves.
What is the frequency of sexual activity between couples
Fifty or sixty years ago, the survey report by American sexologist Kinsey first provided reference materials for people's modern human life status. This data shows that as age increases, the frequency of sexual activity shows a decreasing trend: approximately 3 times per week at the age of 20-30, 2 times per week at the age of 31-40, 1-2 times per week at the age of 41-50, and 1 time per week at the age of 51-55. However, there are significant individual differences in the frequency of modern human life. For example, a survey on the frequency of sexual activity in modern Americans shows that 8% of men and 7% of women have sex more than 4 times a week, 26% of men and 30% of women have sex 2-3 times a week, 16% of men and 18% of women have sex several times a year, and 14% of men and 10% of women had almost no sexual activity in the year before the survey.
In terms of the frequency of sexual activity between couples, as important as age is the influence of marriage age. According to data provided by renowned sexologist Maestros, among newly married couples surveyed, the monthly sexual activity frequency was 14.8 times in the first year, which decreased year by year. In the second year, it was 12.2 times per month, in the fourth year, it was 9 times per month, and in the sixth year, it was 6.3 times per month. Many sexologists point out that the frequency of sexual intercourse between couples decreases with the increase of marriage age, while there are also reports that the frequency of sexual activity reaches its peak after 15-20 years of marriage.
At present, most surveys and general opinions suggest that education level, occupational category, and religious beliefs have no significant impact on the frequency of sexual activity between couples.
A survey of 6210 urban residents and 1392 rural residents in China shows that urban couples have sexual intercourse 4.66 times a month, while rural couples have 5.43 times a month. In this regard, Chinese people seem to be no different from foreign countries.
Same Orgasm experience
Although many authors believe that men reach the end of Orgasm ejaculation almost every time when they have sex with their wives, in recent years, 8% of men aged 45 and over have failed to reach Orgasm many times during sexual intercourse, and 7% of men aged 24 to 44 have married every four times
Female orgasm has always been an issue of interest and concern. Kinsey said that 25% of women within one year of marriage did not experience Orgasm in their sexual life with their husbands, but only 11% of women did not experience Orgasm in their sexual life after 20 years of marriage. The survey of 412 women who have had regular life for more than 3 years by Russian sexologists shows that 24% of them can experience Orgasm every time or almost every time in their sexual life with their husbands, 31% often (more than half the chance) experience Orgasm, 27.4% sometimes (less than half the chance) experience Orgasm, and the other 18% of women do not reach Orgasm in their sexual life. According to the domestic survey on the living conditions of 358 middle-aged women, about 10.34% of them have sexual orgasms each time, 31.01% of them occur frequently, 47.77% occasionally, and 10.89% never occur.