What is a scheming woman? A racial group where a boy loves him immensely but a girl itches her teeth. And the term 'scheming girl' is also created by a girl who dislikes it and can easily make boys like her, which is somewhat derogatory. But the reason why a scheming girl is unpopular with girls is because she uses methods that unpopular girls cannot accept, but only achieves the results that unpopular girls want.
And this is the same reason as hating wealthy people doesn't make you richer, because if you hate them, you won't learn from them, capture and flip the concepts needed to get what you want. Usually, people who dislike scheming women adhere to a value called professionalism and sincerity.
They feel that they must be proactive towards the person they truly like, and they must not let them discover that they like them, otherwise the person they like will not cherish themselves. At the same time, one should not misunderstand someone who doesn't like them, because that's what makes a good girl.
But usually people with such beliefs have a difficult relationship because they adhere to values that only satisfy their own feelings, without thinking about what kind of pressure and discomfort these values cause others. Exclusive love is only valuable when it is confirmed that they like each other and hope for your exclusive love. However, exclusive love when the other person does not like you is actually a kind of trouble.
Sincerity is something that only develops after getting to know the other person for a while. At first, when you fell in love with them before you knew them, it was just like liking your own beautiful imagination. Everything about the other person's understanding is very beautiful, and without their true existence, how can sincerity come from?
So let's change the name. The scheming woman is not a scheming woman, it's just a vocabulary used by people who say grapes are sour and cannot eat grapes. We need to learn from them. This group of people should be called women who know how to meet men's needs. Let's change the name and call them genius little anglers. Similarly, boys who are very attractive to girls (not necessarily wealthy and handsome) are also a group of men who understand women's psychology and needs. However, tools are one thing, the purpose is another, and the tools themselves are innocent, with the focus on the people who use them.
Of course, it is not advisable for people who use tools to take advantage of others, but if the intention of people who use tools is to make themselves happy and happy, then why not? Is it really necessary to adhere to the principle of being a good girl that you persistently adhere to, constantly making the person you like feel stressed and unhappy?
Why are talented little anglers popular? Their essential skill is to make every boy 'think' that I like him.
Seeing this, I may think, I have shown myself very clearly! I even confessed, why didn't it work?
Because the focus of that whole sentence is not on liking, but on thinking. I thought the implicit meaning was to make him feel like this, but in reality, it's not like this. Good girls always wait until they have become so fond of each other that they cannot take action. At this time, all actions carry a high sense of gain and loss, and every move is unnatural. Any move puts great pressure on people because the other party can feel extremely high expectations, which cannot be hidden.
Of course, this doesn't mean that I make him think I like him, but in fact, I don't feel anything at all. Instead, I make him think I really like him, but in fact, I have a good impression of him.
Many good girls have a belief in themselves that I am worse than the person I like, that their likes are not worth being happy, that their likes will push them away, that their likes will be used by them, and that they can only be chosen. So be careful to maintain your liking, afraid of being known by the other party. Make sure the other party likes me first!
Just such a mindset is enough to make a man bounce back. Why like someone who is full of fear and self deprecating? Every girl, please think about the feeling of being chased by someone she doesn't like. The discomfort doesn't come from the fact that the other person likes you, but rather from the fact that whether the person's life is happy or not makes you feel as if it's all in your response to their emotions, so it's very stressful and not easy at all.
Genius anglers, even if they fall in love with someone, can still have their own likes and dislikes. They believe that the likes they give are valuable and will make the other person happy, but because they do not show liking when they are overweight, they are more attractive.
The likes of good girls are very heavy, including the future, responsibilities, constraints, and ups and downs of life. But for talented young anglers, liking a boy is not much different from liking a good friend, and it is not much different from liking delicious food. If it is possible to be generous and express a liking for friends or a liking for a certain food, then what's wrong with being generous and expressing a liking for a certain object?
The reason why talented young anglers are rare is that they must overcome their fear of being chosen or loved, in order to freely express and express their emotions without being controlled by the response of the object being expressed.
In fact, there is really no secret to being popular. Whether it's good popularity or good luck, it's all about making the people you interact with feel like you really like them, but not being constrained by them.
That's all, because each of us likes to be easily liked. This kind of liking can bring joy, self-worth, satisfaction, and more importantly, those around you can feel the security of being accepted and liked. Is it not good for someone who can provide others with such value in terms of popularity and luck?