Post Date August, 27 2023
When people reach their prime of youth and enter a golden age of life, sexual maturity will bring many psychological problems and troubling things to young people. In our society, with the rapid progress of modern science, the understanding of Human sexual activity has received more and more attention and concern. When people reach their prime of youth and enter a golden age of life, sexual maturity will bring many psychological problems and troubling things to young people. In our society, with the rapid progress of modern science, the understanding of Human sexual activity has received more and more attention and concern.
How to enhance sexual harmony and establish a sexual psychology that is conducive to individual health has naturally become a central issue for many people. Everyone hopes to have a happy sexual life, but such a life is not something that can be obtained by chance or a natural phenomenon, but must rely on understanding and understanding of human sexual psychology. Sociologists, psychologists, and medical professionals all attach great importance to this topic in order to convey information to society and people on how to establish such a beautiful life. The different sexual psychological orientation of men and women after sexual maturity, generally speaking, due to the emergence of the second sexual characteristic, the difference between men and women began to have obvious changes. There is a close relationship between women's sexual ability and sex hormones (including ovarian hormones and luteal hormones).
At this point, if a woman's sex hormone secretion is imbalanced or disordered, her libido and ability to achieve pleasure will be damaged and affected. In terms of sexual behavior, most women have a longer and longer progression than men, but are more passive than men. This is only relatively speaking, and sometimes the difference is not significant; But if men are very effective in communicating their verbal thinking and expressing their personal intentions, women can react as quickly as men, thus achieving sexual harmony. In addition, women generally feel that they have a strong Libido, but they are not easy to show stronger sexual behavior, that is, women are not as likely to have persistent and thoughtful Sexual fantasy as men. On the other hand, for most women, their understanding of sex is that their sexual psychology tends to fully enjoy the pleasure of sexual intercourse rather than demanding orgasms every time. On the male side, due to physiological characteristics, social factors, and other reasons, men generally exhibit sexual desire reactions and characteristics that are more susceptible to visual, situational, and visual stimuli than women. Moreover, many men pay more attention to organ stimulation, while women are accustomed to receiving sensory stimuli.
The initiative of male sexual behavior also affects their sexual psychological orientation, along with their long-term status in social life. There are many research reports on sexual psychology that suggest that women have a stronger ability to enjoy sex than men. The sexual abilities of men and women are not the same, and men tend to prefer direct contact with their sexual organs; However, only one-third of women's pleasure comes from sexual organ contact, while two-thirds comes from whole-body contact and emotional satisfaction. After understanding the different psychological orientations of men and women in sexual behavior, it is more important to pay attention to preventing and correcting unhealthy sexual motivations and psychological disorders that may affect healthy sexual life during sexual activity. What are the categories that should be noted?
Unhealthy sexual motivation: A happy and fulfilling family life for both men and women, and a harmonious and enjoyable sexual life are based on mutual adaptation, respect, and love. But some men want to prove their seductive masculinity and demeanor through extramarital affairs and improper sexual behavior outside of marriage; Some women, on the other hand, start with vanity and view their attraction to the opposite sex as a privilege. In such cases, they may exhibit an irresponsible or casual attitude towards sexual relationships. The motivation to prove one's attractiveness through one's own sexual behavior is unhealthy, and in the end, it will only be "empty and sorrowful", which not only damages one's image and emotions, but also endangers marital life.
Another unhealthy sexual motivation is that some people attempt to "anesthetize themselves with sex". In sexual life, pleasure is one of the most basic and primitive pleasures. Among the most basic physiological needs of humans, moderate sexual activity can provide spiritual satisfaction and manifest as energy, happiness in life, and motivation in work. But there are some people who are not satisfied with the reality of life and the dull atmosphere in the environment, but take very frequent sexual behavior as the adjustment and compensation of daily empty life, so that they can not extricate themselves from this kind of life and sexual illusion, that is, they use "sex" to anesthetize themselves, and even lose the idea of improving their own life. "Patients are trapped in drowning", because of addiction and excessive sexual life and the domination of Sexual fantasy, There will inevitably be an imbalance in sexual psychology, which may result in a fundamental loss of one's ability to obtain true sexual pleasure and pleasure, leading to a pathological state.
In addition, some people, influenced by Western lifestyles, literature, and movies, have developed many unreasonable and excessively high expectations for sexual love and behavior, often resulting in some extravagant thoughts. For example, if you think you should enjoy the greatest sex in the world and admire an unrealistic Sexual fantasy, when the reality does not match, you will become more anxious and disappointed, feel extremely bad, and often feel unsatisfied with life... This will affect your physical and mental health, and even lead to "illness", "deviation" and other bad behavior tendencies. In summary, unhealthy motivations for sexual awareness and tendencies are very harmful. A healthy sexual concept must be combined with a person's sound personality, moral and ethical values, personal dignity, etc. It is important to have a healthy sexual life based on your own rationality, emotional stability, care, etc; If a person lacks rationality and stable emotions, even with a certain level of cultural knowledge and literacy, it is useless. The perfect and harmonious sexual life can only be achieved through the guidance of experience, rationality, and knowledge.
