Post Date May, 12 2023
Masturbation manifests as children directly manipulating their genitals with their hands, crossing their feet and moving them up and down to wipe, or riding on certain objects such as prominent furniture edges for friction, lasting for several minutes, in order to avoid adult interference and secretly engage in it. At the same time as vaginal friction, the face may turn red, gaze at each other, have a tense and happy expression, and may also be accompanied by sweating, wheezing, and later fatigue and drowsiness. Most children masturbate in bed before going to bed and after waking up, which can be accompanied by sexual fantasy and ejaculation.
What if I see my son rushing? Response measures
Once parents discover that their child has habitual masturbation, they should not feel nervous or anxious, nor should they use punishment, scolding, ridicule, or other means to force their child to stop the activity.
Firstly, the cause of local stimulation should be identified and removed. Secondly, do not let children lie in bed too early, and allow them to engage in a certain amount of physical activity before going to bed, so that they can fall asleep quickly after lying in bed and wake up immediately. Do not let children wear too much or too hot. It is advisable to wear loose and soft underwear and underwear, and do not wear tight pants during normal times. Attention should be paid to the cleanliness of children's external genitalia. For older children, appropriate persuasion education, induction, and explanation should be provided to dispel their concerns, encourage and support them to participate in more outdoor activities, and divert their attention. To cultivate children's healthy interests and hobbies, do not watch pornographic movies or novels. When the frequency of a child's masturbation habit significantly decreases, timely praise, encouragement, and rewards should be given to strengthen their new healthy behavior.
What are the reasons for children masturbating? Cause of occurrence
Before the lactation period, parents who casually manipulate their children's external genitalia with their hands can have a negative effect on enhancing their children's sexual sensitivity, causing them to engage in masturbation behavior later on. Some children have a long foreskin and often accumulate some dirt, which stimulates their sexual sensitivity zone and induces masturbation. Some parents do not pay attention to the hygiene of their children's external genitalia and do not clean them for a long time. Due to inflammation or itching of the external genitalia, they may use their hands to scratch and touch the clitoris, causing the child to experience sexual sensation. They may become accustomed to masturbation; For older children, the lure of some pornographic television and movies, as well as the lack of attention to avoiding children during adult sexual activities, can cause children to induce sexual impulses and masturbate. Children develop to around the age of 10, and their levels of sexual hormones increase, which can also lead to sexual impulses and masturbation.
