Some women's first Orgasm experience comes from masturbation. When you have sex, you have never experienced it, so you feel worried about it, no matter whether you have reached Orgasm or not. In fact, it's different from enjoying sex, and it won't affect sexual relationships. You don't need to feel guilty. Your understanding partner will not blame you for not reaching Orgasm. I won't put pressure on you either.
1. No one can 'give you' orgasm. Perhaps it is through the necessary stimulation provided by your partner that you can be guided to that level. You must completely relax both mentally and physically in order to achieve your wish. Otherwise, even the most excellent and experienced "super sex expert" will not let you have Orgasm.
2. Because no one can 'give you' orgasm. So you can't force it, many women complain that no matter how hard they try, they just can't do it. Therefore, they think it is too difficult to reach Orgasm. It is a relaxation after tension. To reach this state, you must let your body and mind fully release. Some women find it really difficult, so that they can not enjoy the sense of "out of control".
They sometimes feel that they are almost reaching orgasm, but it seems that their soul will temporarily leave their bodies and begin to examine themselves. So the feeling that finally accumulated disappeared in an instant, and then it may take a long time to associate sexual matters; Some people may be particularly shy about their bodies or may not know how to use certain techniques. Therefore, success always falls short. In short, only by understanding what true orgasm is can you overcome your difficulties.