Post Date April, 15 2023
All 'first dates' are exciting and memorable, and for couples, their first date appears even more grand and unforgettable. Naturally, they cannot end up feeling embarrassed because they cannot find a topic. So how can two people avoid embarrassment on their first date? The first and most important thing is to find a conversation topic and have something to say on a first date. So what does the first date say? There are many answers, let's give a few examples and analyze the specific problems.
1. Food
For China, a big foodie country, what topics are easier to talk about than food? Delicious food can not only please the taste buds, but also the hearing. Talk to the person you like about your favorite food! However, remember that discussing this topic is to know what they like to eat, and in the future, you can use it as an excuse to invite them, rather than constantly describing how many world cuisines you have eaten.
2. Tourism
Apart from eating, it's just playing, which is the most coveted way of life for modern people. Nowadays, people have more or less visited some tourist cities, and at this time, you can use this to open up your conversation! Talking about the cities you have been to and listening to their opinions on a certain city is a great topic where you can tell their preferences. For example, if TA yearns for prosperity, they will have a special love for Beijing, Shanghai, and Guangzhou. If TA likes nature, they will talk to you about Guilin in Yunnan and the famous mountains of the Five Mountains. From the topic of tourism, you can learn about their personality, so that you can better understand them.
3. Entertainment
Entertainment is also a great topic and the easiest way to understand someone. If TA is a person full of love, then TA's entertainment must be carried out together with small animals and various plants! If TA is an otaku man or a otaku woman, its entertainment must be directed towards the computer! And many topics can be derived from entertainment. If you enjoy listening to music, you can learn about TA's favorite music style. If you enjoy watching movies, you can understand TA's taste in movies. Next time, you can send an invitation to TA to watch movies!
4. Friends
As the saying goes, birds of a feather flock together, and friends around them are naturally a great way to get to know each other. Talk about TA's friends and your friends, maybe there will be mutual friends! If TA is willing to share things with you between themselves and friends, whether it's happiness or sadness, it means that you have a significant weight in TA's heart!
5. Work or study
Work or study status is a great topic, whether in school or society, there will always be some happy moments or unpleasant experiences. Listen to them! When TA talks about happy things, laugh with them together. When TA talks about unhappy things, it's your turn to make them happy!
6. Family
If possible, let's also talk about family! Perhaps you are also getting to know your future family in advance! If TA has siblings and you don't, it would be even better! You can express your admiration for TA later, and I believe her heart will be very happy! If only you have siblings, then surely you don't mind sharing your siblings with them!
After reading these 6 topics, do you already know what to say on your first date? The first date is most likely to become the deepest memory in your heart, and it is also the best seasoning in the future. Take advantage of this opportunity!
