What determines a child's life is not their academic performance, but their healthy personality cultivation

What determines a child's life is not their academic performance, but their healthy personality cultivation!

The education of children from a young age affects their future development path, and their education also needs to be related to their parents. So what should regular family education be? Let's take a look at the eight key educational guidance for parents together.

As a modern parent, do you know how to educate modern children? Many parents believe that family education is about developing their children's intelligence, that is, allowing them to memorize Tang poetry from the age of two or three, learn English at the age of four or five, and hire tutors and tutoring classes after school. Their grades must be among the top, and they must attend prestigious universities in the future. It seems that only in this way can parents' education be considered successful and children become successful.

Practice has proven that this is a great misunderstanding of family education and a negative consequence of higher education in family education. The most important task of family education should be to build a great wall of personality for children.

Imagine if a child lacks the understanding of life (the thought of suicide when encountering setbacks), lacks the ability to dream (they don't know what they want to do in the future), doesn't know how to protect themselves (they are still abducted by farmers after becoming a doctoral student), and cannot share with others (they are wealthy but unhappy), then even if the child ranks first in all subjects, what can they do?

Today, the most important thing to change is parents, their educational beliefs. So, what should be the correct family education? Parents should help their children build a good life platform, so that they have good personality cultivation, understand how to be a person, and understand the true meaning of success.

Only when parents' educational concepts change can our children receive good family education and benefit for a lifetime.

The first key is how to help children establish an optimistic and upward mindset

1. Accepting reality is the first step towards optimism

2. Cultivate an optimistic personality and allow children to face life's misfortunes calmly

3. Keep children calm

4. Children who spend a lot of energy on anxiety cannot fully utilize their inherent abilities

5. A sense of humor may seem like a "little trick," but in reality, it's a "big deal

The second key is to help children learn gratitude and tolerance

1. Narrow mindedness can only make children suffer for a lifetime

2. Having love gives one the motivation to seek knowledge and beauty

3. Pranks can cause trouble, guide children to correct them in a timely manner

4. Timely eliminate children's cruel behavior

5. Only by understanding gratitude can one grow

The third key is to cultivate children's courage to face setbacks directly

1. Children are fragile, teach them to face failure bravely

2. Cultivating children's willpower cannot be ignored

3. Children who are unfamiliar with setbacks find it difficult to integrate into society

4. Replacing Inferiority with Confidence

5. Always blaming children for their failures will make them "incompetent"

6. Praise the child, but do not overdo it

The fourth key is to teach children self-protection

1. Teach children some safety knowledge and calmly deal with injuries

2. Children who rely on their parents will inevitably fall

3. Children lack social skills and are at risk of being consumed by life at any time

4. Excessive protection is equivalent to "harm"

5. Improve children's "immunity" and calmly face temptations

The fifth key is to make children dare to dream

1. Only with dreams can there be creation

2. Don't scold children for their "dream talk"

3. When a child has a dream, urge him to take further steps towards it

4. Refusing a child to ask "why" is like cutting off the wings of their thinking

5. Be kind to children's interests

6. Children who are good at creating often have a galloping mind

The sixth key is to cultivate children's good communication skills

1. Children who understand social etiquette can have good social connections

2. Children are good at speaking and are the best at arousing others' interest and attention

3. Respecting others means respecting oneself

4. If a child dares to admit their mistakes, they have already made half of them

5. Collaborative ability is more important than knowledge

6. Children who understand listening possess personality charm

The Seventh Key Teach Children to Use Money Reasonably

1. The earlier children are exposed to and learn to use pocket money, the easier it is for them to earn money as they grow up

2. Properly handling children's lucky money

3. Developing the habit of saving, benefiting children for a lifetime

4. It is better to teach to fish than to teach to fish

5. Correct children's blind comparison mentality

The eighth key is to help children understand themselves correctly

1. Encourage children to actively interact with others and eliminate their loneliness

2. Long term shyness can easily lead to feelings of inferiority in children

3. Only by learning to appreciate others can one appreciate oneself

4. Let children discover their own strengths every day

5. Only by understanding 'giving up' can one have 'gain'