Post Date May, 16 2023
It's not easy for two people to get together, but in recent years, the divorce demography has become higher and higher. The lack of eyes and strange elements in life will hurt the happiness of couples, especially the nine elements will destroy the marriage relationship, which is surprising.
What ruined your marriage?
1. There are always unrealistic expectations
If there are high expectations in marriage, it is easy to feel hopeless and disappointed in the first year after marriage, hoping for a perfect sexual life. In fact, there is no perfect marriage in the world. Optimistic expectations are usually disappointing, but they cannot be abandoned during the marriage process. As long as you control it appropriately.
2. One party always decides
People who have almost no say in general marital life are unhappy, and the strong tend to feel hopeless about marriage. When making decisions together, one party should follow the other party's opinions, learn to change, and express their inner thoughts and opinions more. If everything at home is always up to you to decide, we will try to take turns letting others decide in the future.
3. Present people in a perfect posture
After research, it has been found that in the heart of a partner, it is perfect, but on the contrary, it does not make oneself happy, and the partner may feel that they have not truly recognized themselves. Try to meet the ideal standards of the other party, increase psychological pressure for a long time, and lack a sense of security. In fact, some admiration for a partner can elevate emotions, but it must be controlled.
4. Different memories of important things
Couples' different memories of past events often affect marital relationships such as purchasing a residential car and getting engaged. Both men and women must communicate seriously and reach an agreement to avoid conflicts in future memories.
5. Lack of a certain level of curiosity
In fact, maintaining curiosity can indeed bring miracles to marriage. Generally, people with high curiosity will challenge difficulties rather than threats. They are good at communication and have flexible thinking, and consider problems from multiple perspectives. When encountering disputes in marriage, one should think curiously and find solutions to make the relationship warmer.
6. Concerned about whether the partner relationship is close or not
In a marital relationship, both men and women pay special attention to their position in the other person's heart. They have many common activities and experiences in daily life, and can naturally show a sense of closeness. They must not force it.
7. Having high demands on oneself
