Post Date April, 15 2023
Premarital sex is a kind of sexual relationship between men and women without spouses without going through marriage registration procedures. In the era of our social life, premarital sex always has an attitude of disapproval and opposition. This is not because our social concepts and sexual concepts are deeply influenced by feudal culture, nor because we only emphasize morality without paying attention to feelings, but because premarital sex is very harmful to society and individuals. Let's see what harm premarital sex can do.
What is the harm of premarital sex?
The relationship between both parties tends to fade
Premarital sex can lead to emotional changes. Lovers maintain a hazy, mysterious, implicit, sacred beauty with strong charm. premarital sex is easy to destroy this feeling. After a qualitative leap in their relationship, there will be zero distance. Zero distance can easily cause friction due to small matters, and frequent conflicts can make each other not cherish their emotions; Suspicion and distrust will linger between the two, and in the long run.
Damage to physical and mental health
Premarital sex is often carried out under very tense circumstances. On the one hand, both parties can not control their impulse to secretly taste the "forbidden fruit"; On the other hand, many people are afraid of pregnancy and exposure during and after sexual life, which makes them mix sexual guilt with the pleasure of premarital sex. The latter sometimes even plays a major role. The psychological burden of women in this regard is particularly prominent. Psychologists point out that this sense of sexual guilt can greatly reduce the passion for love, and even form a conditioned reflex that allows sexual activity to only take place in a tense and uneasy atmosphere. Sexual desire tends to decrease, sexual sensitivity decreases, sexual apathy, sexual aversion, etc.
Discontent with sexual life after marriage
Girls who have premarital sex are often dissatisfied with their sexual life after marriage. Marriage is very happy for women without sexual experience after marriage. One reason is that a wife who has premarital sex often misses her previous sexual experience. Recalling and beautifying the past, she always felt that today's husband was not as good as her old lover.
How do girls refuse premarital sex?
Premarital sex is not a moral problem, but a concept problem. its improper place is that premarital sex occurs without clear consideration. If you don't want to have premarital sex, the girl must do her homework. When alone, men simply refuse when they have a request, and when they refuse, their stance is firm and their tone is gentle.
The key is to ask oneself within. What can I do for you, please? If you need a man who truly loves you and marries you, then you can honestly tell him that you are a woman who marries first and then has sex. You are not protecting chastity, but respecting each other's marriage! It doesn't matter if an excellent pursuer escapes. Because men who can accept mutual respect and get married are the ones who truly love you for life.
When is it more appropriate to start having sex?
Don't work too early in the room. If a man breaks the yang earlier, it can damage the essence and qi. If a woman breaks the yin too early, it can damage the yin and qi, and in severe cases, it can lead to premature aging. Ancient health experts believed that the age at which sexual activity began was 22 years for males and 20 years for females. According to a public opinion survey, 36% of people believe they are 18 years old, 42% believe they are 21 years old, and 21% believe they are after 24 years old. From the perspective of China's Marriage Law, the legal marriage age for women is 20 years old, and for men it is 22 years old. But experts point out. The legal age for marriage is not the optimal age for marriage, and the legal age for marriage is not the optimal age for marriage.
Because young women around the age of 20 are still in the development stage, especially the gonads and reproductive organs are not fully mature, and women are pregnant and need a lot of physical strength and nutrition to give birth to a child. From pregnancy in October to the birth of a child, from a needle point zygote to a fetus of more than 3 kg, the nutrition needed is provided by the mother. If the women themselves are not mature, they will share nutrients equally with the fetus, Not only will it affect the health of pregnant women themselves, but it will also affect the growth and development of the next generation.
