Nowadays, it is very common to have sex before marriage. This kind of behavior will cause many unexpected harm to girls. Therefore, it is very important to avoid having sex in love. Especially as a boy, he should learn to restrain himself and protect her when he loves her. So how can a boy control his sexual impulse in love? First, he should understand the harm of premarital sex.
Premarital sex is a deviant behavior that is contrary to social morality in the stage of love, and it is very harmful to the development of love.
First, premarital sex is illegal. In our country, sexual activity is a legal right for couples and an important part of their daily life. It must be protected by law and cannot occur casually between any man or woman.
Second, premarital sex is easy to cause frustration. There are two possibilities for a romantic relationship, either having a lover and eventually getting married, or having no chance to part ways. If a sexual relationship occurs, once one party likes the new and dislikes the old, seeks a new partner, or breaks up due to other reasons, it will cause serious setbacks and setbacks to the other party. For young women, it will bring greater pain.
Third, premarital sex will cause psychological disorders of both parties. The parties involved often engage in sexual activity in a state of tension and coercion, and in most cases, young men lack necessary sexual knowledge, making it difficult to have a pleasant and harmonious sexual life. Not only can it lead to a decrease in the pleasure of sexual activity on the night of marriage, but it can also cause some girls to have abnormal views on sexual activity, such as believing that it is painful, unclean, and unhappy, and generating feelings of disgust, disgust, and fear towards sexual activity, resulting in sexual apathy and affecting normal sexual activity after marriage. If pregnant accidentally, it will put both parties in an awkward situation. Although early abortion is safe, it can bring physical and mental pain and loss to the girl, and some dangerous complications can also occur as a result. Fourth, premarital sex may cause unhappiness in married life.
Some men feel that they will have sexual intercourse sooner or later, so they have sex with a girl without registering for marriage. But later on, the girl's faults gradually exposed, and the young man felt dissatisfied. However, "raw rice became cooked rice," and regret was too late, so he had to reluctantly get married. Similarly, some girls hastily submit under the sweet words of men, and although they feel that the other party is not ideal over time, in order to consider reputation, they have to compromise and reluctantly combine. This kind of marriage without a foundation cannot be considered happy.