Men can also be very heartbreaking at times. You should know that in marriage, men can sometimes be very helpless. If a woman insists on divorce, what should you do? If you keep her, you have done everything you need to do. However, she still insists on divorce, what should she do? If there is no way, then leave. Perhaps this is the ultimate liberation. So, in our daily lives, what are the advantages and disadvantages of a woman marrying a second married man? Interested friends can learn about it with me!!
An Analysis of the Advantages and Disadvantages of Marrying a Second Married Man
Because everything has two sides, treating a second married man cannot be done with one blow, so the key is for the woman to make her own choices. Let's take a look at the pros and cons of marrying a second married man!
Advantages of marrying a second married man:
1. After experiencing a failed marriage, one will reflect on their shortcomings in the emotional field and will not make mistakes hastily after the marriage restructuring.
At the marriageable age, there are not many men who can completely wean, so many men also get married first and then learn to mature. For this reason, there are too many arguments and impatience in the process of couples' adjustment. In this case, precipitation means that both spouses have no happiness in their marriage. The result is often one partner cheating, or both partners cheating. During the post infidelity period, many people focused on the infidelity itself, but did not examine their shortcomings in managing their marriage. Only after a real divorce did they begin to reflect on themselves, resulting in a situation where previous generations planted trees and later generations took advantage of it. Men usually do not make the same mistake, so after marriage restructuring, they will cherish their existing marriage even more.
2. As one ages and is polished by society in universities, they become more mature and can provide women with a relatively pragmatic life.
After experiencing too many people and things, men gradually lose their selfishness and laziness. They spend more time with their families and less time playing with their friends. At the same time, after experiencing the ups and downs of marriage and restructuring, men become relatively calm and can clearly recognize the importance of home. Therefore, in front of women, there is less violent temper, less tit for tat, but more tolerance and affection. The tolerance of second-hand men towards women is also to a greater extent selfish, because they are afraid of losing and do not want to 'enter the palace three times' in the field of marriage. Therefore, as long as the current wife does not act too much, he will definitely consider her as a treasure.
Disadvantages of marrying a second married man:
1. The double care for children will become the main contradiction between couples, and it is easy to develop sensitive feelings of caring for the child.
Men usually strive for the custody of their children at the moment of divorce, which is an instinct of men in the trend of inheritance, or in other words, they are eager to love their children. However, children often become obstacles on the way to remarriage. In real life, many divorced men and women consider the feelings of their children when it comes to marriage restructuring, and even some divorced men and women are willing to be single for more than ten years in order to cultivate their children into talents, and then consider personal emotions after the children become adults. From this, it can be seen how important children are to parents. For this reason, marrying a second-hand man requires accepting his children. If he cannot play the role of a qualified stepmother, then marriage will not be happy.
2. Having been burned by love before, one may lose some romantic actions after marriage restructuring, resulting in a relatively dull marriage.
People will eventually have flaws. A 'playful' man can give women the romance they want, but he cannot give women a sense of security; A 'calm' man can give women the sense of security they want, but not romance. After experiencing the impact of divorce, second-hand men's views on marriage and love will become more realistic, and making money may become their greatest pleasure. Especially in some marriages where 'marriageable women marry divorced uncles', there may be many generation gaps between the two parties due to age differences. In this situation, men do not know how to deal with women's' mischievous entanglement' because they have passed the age of needle to needle. Therefore, men usually use silence to resolve all disputes. However, women sometimes prefer to curse each other rather than keep men silent.
Conclusion: Through the introduction of the editor, I believe everyone has a further understanding of this article. Men who have been hurt by love are sometimes the most capable of understanding emotions. Therefore, if you encounter such men, you may give them a chance, after all, we all have the right to love.