Post Date April, 15 2023
Do you know about sexual intercourse disorder? Sexual life is a part of couples' life. If sexual intercourse is obstructed, it will affect men's health and even destroy family harmony. So, do you know about sexual intercourse disorder? How should sexual intercourse disorder be treated?
1、 Symptoms of sexual intercourse disorder
1. Libido disorder
This is the most common symptom of sexual intercourse disorder, mainly because men lose interest in sexual life, which leads to disharmony in sexual life. So men should treat this situation correctly and go to the hospital for diagnosis and treatment in time.
2. Pain during sexual intercourse
This is the most common in sexual life. Because of a variety of factors, sexual life pain has seriously affected the quality of sexual life. Therefore, men should pay high attention and go to regular hospitals for scientific diagnosis and treatment in time.
3. Ejaculatory disorder
The main reason is that the sexual life is going on normally, and the semen cannot be discharged normally when the orgasm is coming, that is, the ejaculation is weak, which is a big taboo for men, and it is also a matter of losing face.
2、 Causes of sexual intercourse disorder
1. The work is too busy, the body is too tired, and I am exhausted when I come home at night. The psychologist said, "Stress and fatigue are the biggest killers of sexual passion! A person has no time and energy to enjoy sexual life, which means he has no time and energy to enjoy a good life!"
2. Lack of sexual fantasy
Many couples gradually lose their sexual interest in life, partly because they lack sexual fantasy.
3. The bad mood of the other party makes the sexual life of the spouse dim and colorless
Psychoanalysts said, "If the other party holds resentment, anger and tension in sexual life, their sexual life will be disharmonious. For couples who have sex for a long time, it is essential to cultivate good emotions in sexual life."
4. Destroy sexual life between husband and wife during childbirth
Medical experts pointed out that during the period before and after the birth of the baby, couples cannot have sex. At this time, the husband needs to adjust and control himself, distinguish the priority of family life, and postpone the sexual needs.
5. If the wife doesn't want to have sex, the husband will take revenge on the wife. When the wife is unhappy during sex, the husband will think that the wife has an opinion on him, or has lost a good impression on himself, or even in the future sex life.
6. Can't slow down in sexual life
Sex often ends in a hasty way, and both parties fail to achieve pleasure.
7. No communication between husband and wife
Whether the couple didn't tell their true feelings. Lack of communication and communication between them will only increase the estrangement and pressure between the couple, and then make sex life dull.
8. Life is too procedural
The love life of the real couple is not the same as that in the movie, especially for the couple who have been married for many years. Because of their busy work and many other factors, their life has gradually become a procedural. At the same time, sex life is just "routine business".
9. Sex becomes routine business
Couple life has become routine business over time.
10. Incorrect sexual views
Many people have no desire for sex, but that doesn't mean they have problems with sexual function. Many people have low sexual desire, but they are crazy about sex when they have their first sexual act.
3、 Treatment of sexual intercourse disorder
1. Coordinating couples' sexual life
Before the treatment of sexual physiological dysfunction, we must first carry out corresponding screening to see whether it is caused by organic aspects of sexual dysfunction, and if necessary, surgical treatment can be used. If it belongs to the mental aspect, it is necessary to carry out psychological treatment, supplemented by drug treatment. In the process of treatment, both men and women need to understand and cooperate with each other, and can selectively carry out "sexy concentration training" to achieve faster and better curative effect. In addition, try to drink less, smoke less and exercise more.
2. Psychoanalytic therapy
This is a psychotherapy method for sexual dysfunction, which was dominant from the 1930s, 1940s to the end of 1960s. According to the psychoanalytic principle of FREAD, it believes that sexual dysfunction is a manifestation of personality disorder and a neurosis with sexual problems. Through "free association", "dream analysis" and other technologies, psychoanalysts guide the subconscious conflicts, motivations and fantasies to the conscious field to vent, and the sexual impulse will be contacted by the person concerned, and then the sexual function will return to normal.
3. Collective treatment
Due to the promotion of couples' joint therapy, a large number of unmarried, divorced, widowed and married couples with no fixed sexual partners can not receive psychological treatment, and collective treatment has emerged to provide services for these patients.
4. New treatment
Also known as psychoanalytic sexual therapy, its theory believes that the interaction between interpersonal and individual psychodynamics plays an important role in the formation of sexual dysfunction. It strengthens the psychoanalytic component to explore the subconscious motivation behind sexual dysfunction.
5. Cognitive therapy
The techniques of this therapy include ELLIS's ABC theory, courage to train oneself, sexual examination, and sexual attitude reshaping.
6. Drug treatment
The combination of traditional Chinese and western medicine is used to adjust the nerve and gonadal axis, and regulate the function of the epithelial cells of the penile artery vessels at the same time, so as to expand the vessels moderately, increase the blood flow, activate the cavernous dynamics, significantly improve the rigidity of the erection, prolong the erection time, and restore the normal ejaculation threshold of the human body.
