What are five personality changes in adolescent children? How to face a curious mentality

Adolescent children's personality traits: Resistance to adolescence is extremely strong. They often get excited, lose their temper recklessly, and argue against adults. This is because their self-awareness begins to establish, and they should do things according to their own wishes. If adults impose slight constraints, they will develop a rebellious mentality.

Children who resist adolescence have extremely strong resistance. They often get excited, lose their temper recklessly, and argue against adults. This is because their self-awareness begins to establish, and they should do things according to their own wishes. If adults impose slight constraints, they will develop a rebellious mentality.

Puzzlement between Ideal and Reality: Adolescent children have a broad vision, strengthened observation, and improved perception. They examine the new world in front of them with curious eyes, and if they discover significant differences from what they have learned in books, they will become confused between ideal and reality.

Due to the enhancement of self-awareness, they often focus on themselves, sometimes believing themselves inferior due to small flaws in appearance and academic failures, and overestimating others, resulting in a sense of inferiority and becoming isolated.

Self display: Adolescent children have a strong sense of vanity. They wear fancy clothing and make sensational behavior among their classmates in order to show off themselves. Although this tendency is a normal phenomenon in adolescence, it should be guided correctly, otherwise they are prone to taking the wrong path in order to satisfy their vanity.

Due to the stimulation of sex hormones, adolescent children are abnormally concerned about the opposite sex. The opposite sex has become the central topic of conversation among classmates, with some children secretly reading sexual knowledge books, and others attempting to establish one-on-one communication between men and women.

Given the above reasons, parents should first understand that it is normal for their children to undergo some changes in daily life, which is a reflection of psychological changes during adolescence in their actions. Parents do not need to pay too much attention and worry, and should not overly suppress certain unrealistic thoughts and actions of their children. Otherwise, it will cause psychological barriers between children and their parents, and increase their psychological burden.

More importantly, parents should treat their children with love. If parents simply scold, it will exacerbate the conflict between children and their parents. As parents, we should take the initiative to talk to our children, care about their learning, listen to their ideals, and praise and affirm them. We should establish a sense of trust in our children's parents, understand their troubles and confusions during the conversation, and find the right solutions to eliminate their troubles. It is also necessary to contact the teacher in a timely manner, encourage them to participate more in class work and sports activities, divert their attention, and enable children to spend their days fully.