Post Date August, 26 2023
1、 What should I do if my wife has frigidity? Sexual activity is an activity where couples have high sexual desire and satisfy each other. Sometimes a husband's passion is met with a cold reception from his wife. Even if he reluctantly engages in sexual intercourse, he ends up breaking up in displeasure. What is this really about?
It turns out that the wife has developed frigidity, which refers to a woman losing interest in sexual life and even developing feelings of indifference and disgust. This is a typical Sexual dysfunction.
Human sexual response is controlled by thinking activities. All kinds of negative emotions such as inhibition, self blame, anxiety and fear can inhibit the emergence of Orgasm through the influence of the cerebral cortex on the sexual central nerve and hypothalamus pituitary gonad axis.
The reasons for this situation generally come from two aspects:
① The patient has some diseases, such as ovarian insufficiency, or dysfunction of Endocrine gland such as Adrenal cortex and pituitary gland.
② Caused by psychological factors such as inhibition, fear, and sexual disharmony. Generally speaking, women have sexual pleasure and Orgasm is slower than men. If the man cannot adapt to the physiological characteristics of women, it will lead to unsatisfied sexual life for a long time, and some even cause lower abdominal tension, pelvic muscle spasm, Vaginismus and other phenomena during sexual intercourse. This is not only a result of frigidity, but also a cause or aggravation of frigidity.
According to research and analysis by medical experts, the vast majority of female frigidity is caused by psychological factors.
Therefore, the first thing to do is to put down the heavy burden on oneself and build confidence. A large amount of domestic and foreign survey data has proven that female sexual apathy decreases year by year with the increase of marriage age, and sexual life between couples will become more harmonious.
Secondly, coordinate marital relationships. Because marriage without love or marital discord cannot have the pleasure of sexual life. In the family, a wife is not a vassal of her husband. Only by showing more concern and consideration for her can she gradually forget the unfortunate past and never express dissatisfaction in words. I often accompany her for walks, travels, and movies. Put in more effort in household chores, give more encouragement in spirit, and constantly provide psychological comfort to her. When there are differences of opinion in life, a tolerant and tolerant attitude should be adopted to alleviate and resolve conflicts.
Thirdly, close cooperation between both parties is required. The preparation work before sexual intercourse should be more thorough, and sexual intercourse should only be carried out when the wife has sexual desire, which is also helpful for the transformation of sexual apathy. When a wife temporarily does not want to have sex due to physiological or psychological factors, do not disrespect her wishes and force sexual intercourse just to satisfy her own sexual desire. This will make her more disgusted and disgusted with sexual life.
2、 How does a husband treat a wife with frigidity? It should be said that frigidity is a situation that both men and women encounter, but statistical data shows that women are more numerous and heavier than men. A survey shows that 26% of married women suffer from varying degrees of frigidity. Therefore, as a husband, one should pay special attention to whether their spouse has sexual apathy, and should also learn how to treat a wife who has sexual apathy. In fact, the wife's sexual apathy can be detected on her wedding night.
