Watching pornographic films regularly can lead to a decrease in sexual desire, and attention should be paid to it

Many film and television works often show intimate scenes between male and female actors, which is a beautiful display of love. And there is a movie that, at the moment of pressing the start button, directly showcases sexual love in front of you, and runs through the entire movie. This is the so-called A-film. According to a report by Taiwan's "Health" magazine, Dai Junnan, the director of the Yueming Pastoral Psychology Research Institute in Taiwan, pointed out that generally speaking, men prefer to watch pornographic films, pornographic books, or similar websites.

Usually, this behavior gradually decreases with age and experience, but some people not only do not restrain themselves, but also intensify. If this continues, it may threaten normal sexual activity and even reduce sexual desire. It should be noted that the content of porn is usually exaggerated, as if every woman gets excited about sexual stimulation, and every man is persistent, which can easily lead to misconceptions. In addition, indulging in porn can also affect a man's sexual ability. Because the wife may not be as hot and sexy as the female protagonists in the porn series. After watching it for a long time, they may become less and less interested in their wife, and in severe cases, they may not be able to have an erection.

So I often remind men that there is a huge gap between porn and real life, so it's best not to watch it or occasionally do it, but it should be based on the principle of not affecting life. If a wife finds that her husband has signs of being addicted to it, such as watching it a few times a day, which affects normal life, work, interpersonal relationships, and marital relationships, it's sick and abnormal, and she needs to find ways to help her quit addiction, "said Dai Junnan. A wife can ask her husband in a relatively gentle manner, "What does it feel like to watch porn? I'm curious." If the husband is willing to express his true feelings in his heart, the wife can moderately express her position, such as, "You see these things, it makes me feel very uncomfortable, as if I can't compare to those women." But don't make too many comments, otherwise it will make the other party dislike.

Wives need to be patient, like correcting their children's behavior, insisting but not getting angry, because if they get angry and argue all their lives, husbands tend to focus on dealing with their wives' emotions. Usually, mature and rational men will gradually change as a result, but if the situation does not change or if the husband is really addicted to it, it is advisable to seek the help of a professional psychologist.