A man's excellent eloquence is always an advantage, but when women list the advantages of a man, they rarely emphasize this point, especially when they describe the characteristics of their loved ones.
Remember, there is a lyric in Zhang Guorong's "Silence is Gold" that goes like this: You are doomed to be rich or poor, right or wrong, never right or true, always true, whatever you say, keep my duty, and always believe that silence is gold.
God has given us the right to live, rich and poor, right and wrong. As an objective being, we need not criticize, resent, and be silent. Perhaps this is the best choice.
Of course, "silence is golden" is not only a great wealth in life philosophy, but also a carving art for men. There is no man in the world who doesn't want to be a man who makes a woman feel good, but how do you make a woman feel good?
Confucius once used the word "forgiveness" to face everything in life, but as a man, in order to get the woman he loves, he chose different ways, ranging from direct confession to romance like Korean dramas. Regardless of the way he used, regardless of whether the feelings expressed were true or not, he must pay attention to the word "silence".
A man's excellent eloquence is always an advantage, but when women list the advantages of a man, they rarely emphasize this point, especially when they describe the characteristics of their loved ones.
In fact, in public situations, many women would rather have their beloved man remain silent than listen to his superficial chatter there. Even in a two person world, women also want their own man to be a good listener.
At times like this, women don't necessarily require men to express themselves or make other responses. Men just need to sit there and say, "Hmm," or "That's it." That's enough to satisfy women. Even when men read newspapers or TV and add two words like, "Very good," or "It's okay," women may not feel left out.
This is why a man who speaks few words often appeals to women, not only because he feels mysterious, but also because he looks deeper and more cultured. A woman can tolerate her ignorance, but she cannot tolerate a man's shallowness. The insurance method is to express opinions only on things you are familiar with. At least that makes women think you're reliable.