Anyone who lies makes people angry, especially children who lie will make you feel angry. The same is true for your husband. Maybe he is drinking with a friend, but he tells you that he is in a meeting. I believe many men have done this. As a wife, are you equally angry? In fact, carefully analyze the reason for this practice in men's emotions? Why would I lie to you? What other circumstances are the reasons why men lie?
1. The reason why men lie is to avoid arguments between you.
Maybe the clothes you wear today are not beautiful, but men still pretend to appreciate them and say they are beautiful. This may be that men always give similar answers to their wives' questions. It may be that they do not want to hurt your self-esteem, do not want to make trouble for themselves, and avoid causing your displeasure or misunderstanding.
2. The reason why men lie is to maintain their self-confidence.
If there is a small electrical appliance or a small furniture broken in the home, you ask him if he can repair it. He will tell you that he can repair it, but he is lying. But if a man can't repair a tool at home, he will lie and say that it is broken and should be replaced, because if he admits to failure and asks his wife to repair it, he will feel that it will hurt his self-confidence.
3. The reason why men lie is to protect themselves.
Although it is a bit heavy, men may lie for fear of listening to you all the time. For example, all men think that they are extraordinary good people. So when you meet your husband who forgot to call you, or because he was late for the appointment and failed to finish the things you told him, he usually uses this excuse. Please forgive him more. In men's view, lying is sometimes one of the ways to avoid being hurt.
4. The reason why men lie is to make you think it is right to marry him.
When talking about their past, men always show their best. By describing their bravery and strength, their experience or their important position in the job, they often exaggerate. They do so just to make you remember that you married the right person, and they just talk big to satisfy their good feelings.
Of course, there are many things that men lie about, which need to be carefully distinguished by their wives, and most men are white to your lies. For example, when they say they are drinking but lie about meeting at the beginning, they have to lie in order not to worry about their wives, or to make themselves happy. As for these white lies, a wife should keep one eye open and one eye closed for the sake of family harmony.
(Intern editor: Zhao Minqing)