Uncovering the hidden rules of a man's emotional world, making you victorious in all battles

Men are indeed very complex and ever-changing 'animals', and they have been working hard all their lives. Men constantly secretly create ideas in their hearts to reflect their own value. Secret is the nanny for men's growth and the nourishment for their souls. Men without secrecy will feel empty and exhausted in their hearts. Men cannot do without secrecy. And for the Men's Gang, these secrets are the hidden rules of the men's world.

It is said that the greatest misfortune of women is to misunderstand men, as they always doubt what is behind them. In fact, men are easy to grasp. No matter how many false appearances there are, as long as you love them, you may find their way. In fact, women have a lot of fun loving men, and through their love for men, they can also discover the infinite hidden world behind them.

Men are indeed very complex and ever-changing 'animals', and they have been working hard all their lives. Men constantly secretly create ideas in their hearts to reflect their own value. Secret is the nanny for men's growth and the nourishment for their souls. Men without secrecy will feel empty and exhausted in their hearts. Men cannot do without secrecy. And for the Men's Gang, these secrets are the hidden rules of the men's world.

Men attach great importance to their hidden rules and always want to incorporate fragments of life into the mysterious X-Files, so that women who want to understand them cannot get a glimpse.

So, we grilled these secret rules that men spread to each other behind women's backs, and suggested that you muster the courage to read through these men's self righteous and self satisfied strategies. Understanding these may help you gain insights into the situation and gain some success in the new battlefield of love

Rule 1: No commitment horizontally or vertically

Scene: Enron and Lao Mai have been in a relationship for two years, thinking that they are well acquainted and can consider marriage issues. But when Enron proposed to get married, Old Mai always said, "It's not a good day like this now. So Anran remained silent and had to live on like this, but after a while, she was no longer satisfied.

Old Mai spoke his heart out at a gathering of his buddies: getting married is a terrifying thing. The thought of having to bear so much in the future makes me shudder. In fact, people like Enron may not be able to make a living.

Old Mai's hesitation and his hesitant attitude towards life have led to the instability of Enron's love with him. Finally, one day, Old Maiyuan went to study abroad in the UK, leaving Anran feeling sad alone.

Analysis: Men often do not easily commit to not taking responsibility. A man doesn't want to be too troublesome. He will try his best to please you and win your favor, but he never promises lightly and always leaves a way out for himself.

Countermeasure: Upon seeing signs of irresponsibility from the other party, immediately curb your romantic thoughts. You can be friends with him, but never have any illusions about him.

The person who truly wants to have a family with you will definitely take you to their home, meet their parents, relatives, and friends, and discuss your future dreams and paths with you, instead of just evading words and giving up.

Rule 2: Play 'evaporation' frequently

Scene: Mai thinks Zou Shi is very strange. He doesn't refuse her favor, always treats her well when meeting, and looks very close. However, their chances of meeting are decreasing, and their time is also decreasing.

He would occasionally come and completely disappear, not answering phone calls or answering text messages. When she became anxious, she suddenly appeared with a smile, as if forgetting something that had disappeared before.

Zou Shi said, "Actually, I'm not as good to her as before, but she still buys me small gifts and always calls me. I'm really annoyed, she always loves me according to her thinking, and I won't make her sad very much because I'm used to showing a gentleman's demeanor in front of girls, and I'm not only handsome and witty to her alone

Analysis: Men are sometimes willing to remain aloof from women like this: they conquer you with a diligent and unrestrained attitude, making you unable to forget their vitality and humor. You can't help but miss him, but he seems to have evaporated and has time not to contact you.

When he reappears, he remains as witty and adorable as ever. Even if you have heard that he has a bad reputation, you can't help but believe him.

He can handle anything you say and make you feel happy with him. Even if he said recklessly that I just like women, you think this is his genuine and shining personality.

He always stands out in your emotional world, full of wonder. Although sometimes you may realize that you are not his only one, but infatuation with him is incurable.

Because it's easy for men to be double-faced.

Countermeasure: Men finally reveal their true colors, and sometimes they just play some emotional games. So you must not take it seriously. You must learn to hide your desires and emotions, maintain your mystery, and this will make you more attractive. The more urgent the other party is, the more indifferent you need to be. Rather than worrying about himself, it's better to make him anxious.

(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)