Most men want their wife to be a Wangfu woman, because such a woman can not only help them take care of their family, but also play a great role in the development of their husband's career.
Of course, it's not easy to be a Wangfu woman. She stood behind the man, guarding his nest, tying his stomach and holding his heart; Put on the armor for him, watch him ride on the horse, throw him a flower and a kiss, let him go out bravely... The hard work and tears behind these are often overlooked by men. So we now advocate the new Paiwangfu women, who not only prosper their husbands, but also take care of themselves, gain the recognition of men, and enrich their lives.
A woman's prosperity is not determined by her appearance, but by her comprehensive quality. To be a new Wangfu woman, you need to have some "qi" (tick), but also discard some "qi" (cross).
√ Charming
After all, a woman is a woman. She still needs to be a little coquettish to show her true colors.
If a woman does not act coquettishly, it is inevitable that she will be so beautiful that she will be frightened and lose her desire to be close; Women are not unruly and have little charm. They are too peaceful and lose the desire to be conquered. Why are there not many women who like Lin Zhiling, while the men who like her grab a lot? It seems that men really like women who play coquettish and whine. Such women make them feel that being a man is very emotional and has a strong desire to conquer.
Of course, if there is a woman standing in the living room with a rose in her hand to welcome her husband's return, she will probably scare her husband's life - just to give an example to prove that being coquettish is a character that women can't lose, but it is necessary to hold the right balance, and don't copy it.
× arrogance
It is harmless for a woman to be a little coquettish and a little petulant occasionally, but a woman who thinks she is better than a man, and then bosses and domineering makes a man headache. Women who scold men by pointing at their noses are often seen on the street, while men frown and swallow their anger. This is not what a new Wangfu woman should do.
√ Pyrotechnic gas
You can't just play coquettish. Life is not romantic after all. Well, some fireworks are necessary.
But many women now refuse to go to the kitchen. They think that once a woman enters the kitchen, she will degenerate and enter the period of "yellow face" around the pot, and will continue to degenerate, unable to remove the pyrotechnic gas for life, and men will eventually get tired of her because of the pyrotechnic gas that cannot be removed, so that they will abandon her.
However, can a woman who is too beautiful to eat fireworks really make a man love her more? In fact, whether men or women, from an eye pleasing point of view, they like such women. For example, we all love to see blue eyed beauties in fashion magazines. For example, we are all excited about Lin Zhiling's swaying sexy body at the Taiwan, China Golden Bell Award Ceremony - because they can never have a substantive relationship with our life. At best, they can only be regarded as masturbation.
Men and women marry for the purpose of living. How do you know that if Lin Zhiling gets married, she will not go into the kitchen?
Of course, women do not cook every meal every day. Instead, we might as well take cooking as a kind of mood and life adjustment. Of course, men can't be an absolute bystander. You have to fight and occasionally show your hand. Everything needs to be done by two people together.
× femininity
All day long, I know how to paint my eyebrows and mouth, change clothes and spray perfume. In addition, I don't do anything. I can't do anything well. I'm tired when I go downstairs to buy a bag of salt. I have to ask for half a day's work when I finally wash a piece of clothes. Of course, I won't go down to the kitchen to cook a meal for a man and cook soup for a time. I'm afraid I will dirty my new clothes and smell of oil smoke. When a man is with such a woman, he may treat her as a little girl at the beginning, take care of her carefully, or use her as a vase to face silly music every day. It is hard to avoid resentment, tiredness and disappointment after a long time.
When a woman is good-looking, she can do nothing to help a man, but only cause him trouble. What does such a woman want to do?
√ Bookish air
If you just walk around the pot every day, what's the difference between such a woman and a full-time cook? What men want is not only to satisfy their stomach, but also to satisfy their heart, or we call it thought.
Everyone said that Changsha is a city with a strong culture, and Hunan girls are also beautiful, but the beauty is a bit pungent and brutal, and there are few "ladies" and "bookies". In fact, a woman who loves reading, her background and temperament are the ones that can really impress men. As the old saying goes, the belly is full of poetry and books. Read more and read more. The temperament from the inside to the outside will make men appreciate and forget to leave.
× Tacky
If you don't have half a drop of ink in your stomach, of course it will become tacky. Even if you don't speak, vulgarity will come out of your eyes, and you can't hide it. Where does a vulgar woman come from? Where do you come from? How can you help a man's future and career? Moreover, in the face of a tacky woman, a man will have a full stomach. Even if you have Wangfu mole all over your face, where can Wangfu be?
√ Atmosphere
With the bookish air, women will have the air.
There is a very funny thing. When a woman was single, she used to sleep with a hot water bag in winter. After marriage, although she had a living "heater", she kept the hot water bag for commemoration. My husband felt useless and casually said, "Why do you keep this?" A few days later, the hot water bag disappeared. Maybe it was carelessly lost when picking up the sundries, but the woman was determined to think that her husband must have thrown away the hot water bag while she was not paying attention.
So every day, he recites and complains about his husband, who feels that he is wronged and swears. However, women have formed a habit. Every time they have any dissatisfaction with men, they will put this matter together and say: You have no conscience, and you have secretly dumped my hot water bag... Men can't laugh or cry, not only can't hear the three words "hot water bag", but even feel dizzy when they hear "hot water" recently.
A woman's atmosphere is also reflected in many aspects, such as treating her husband's friends. Many women are too strict with their husbands and like to tie men to their waistbands, which is actually very bad. When many women get married, their husbands are the whole world of themselves. However, if a man regards his wife as the whole world, it can only be said that he is as narrow as a woman and has no prospects. Men need friends. Let's not say "it's easy to walk with more friends". You should at least have this view: it can promote the relationship between husband and wife to spend time with friends.
As a new Paiwang couple, it is necessary to give each other appropriate space, and have a broad mind and integrate into each other's life.
× appearing nervous in public
Obviously, smallness is opposite to atmosphere. Small family spirit is not purely reflected in money, but in an attitude.
There was a woman who was completely in control of her husband's whereabouts. She refused to join her husband's friend party. However, as long as her husband and friends were together for more than one hour, she would receive a call every five minutes, and "the fish in the pond". Every friend with her husband would receive a call from the woman from time to time, asking them what they were playing and when it was over. It was OK to have two calls at a time, Friends try to give men face, persuade them, and invite women to play with them. More times, the irascible friends get angry, which makes men embarrassed and angry.
Another woman, who has a high income with her husband, is keen to turn the water in the kitchen to the point where the water meter doesn't turn, and then connect it to the bottom with a small bucket. The next day, however, she was so happy to receive rice washing water. The man can't stand this. He said it to her several times, but she said it showed that she would live. It was not until one day that the man was so angry that he broke her bucket that she reluctantly ended this hobby.
There is another woman who lives with her parents-in-law and is always ready to sneak the good things of her husband's family into her family one by one, even a pair of socks.
Outsiders may just laugh at these petty women. It's really unlucky for her husband.
√ Wangfu gas
When you have the above "Qi", you will naturally have Wangfu Qi. Wangfuqi is different from Wangfuxiang. The so-called "Wangfuxiang" has too many mysterious colors. If you believe it, you will have it. If you don't believe it, you will not. Wangfu's anger means that as a wife, she must help her husband's progress.
More than 10 years ago, her husband had an iron rice bowl in a state-owned enterprise, with a good income and a comfortable life. However, she has a long-term vision. She has determined that this is a "sunset industry". The good days will not be long. At the same time, she has determined that the lawyer industry is very promising. Therefore, she advised her husband to resign and study. In those days, their living standards fell a lot, but these were only temporary. When the former colleagues who kept the iron rice bowl in the factory were laid off one after another and their lives were in distress, her husband was already a barrister with a car and a house.
Who says women have long hair and short knowledge? To Wangfu, you can't rely on "Banxian" to say that you have a mole on your face that can play a "supernatural power", nor do you have to bring millions of dowries to make him struggle less for decades, but rely on your vision, your real ability, and you can help his career and your family life. Think about it. Have you ever put forward constructive suggestions to your friend? Have you changed his mode of thinking? Have you really helped him?
× Despicable spirit
Look at the women behind those corrupt officials. I can't find anything good! Can you say that those corrupt officials are really heinous? In fact, most of the time, it is women who play tricks behind their backs. Men's great future is defeated by their greed. They are Mrs. Macbeth of this era. For their own selfish desire, they encourage their men to do things that should not be done at all and will never be undone. Such women are the black sheep that men should really avoid!
In fact, women's self-worth can be realized while promoting a man's success. This is what a fashionable and new couple should do!