Post Date April, 15 2023
Bad work makes me lose face
Men always seem to put work first. Why is work so attractive to men? A man works to earn money, and another driving force is to win more and more respect. Once he loses his job, he will feel ashamed, and then lose his sense of security. He will be irritable, anxious and even angry.
Tell: Amy, 32, housewife
Recently, my husband always lost his temper after coming home, which made me very upset. Every day I take care of my children and clean up the house by myself, which is very boring. I have been looking forward to his return since he left the house. But when he came home, he said nothing to me, even the food was very picky. I felt very aggrieved. Last Saturday, after he came back, he began to pick on my fault. I couldn't help quarrelling with him.
Yesterday, my good friends in my husband's work came home for dinner, and I heard from their words that my husband has not been working well recently. That's how I understand his bad mood. Looking at the hair falling off his pillow every day, I know that he is under great pressure, but why doesn't he talk to me and keep it in his mind.
Comments: Problems at work are also one of the common sources of stress for men. Many women who come to consult will talk about the tension of family relations, and their husbands often lose their temper. One of these is that when a man is under pressure from work, because he is not "strong" enough, he tries to compromise and is treated unfairly outside. After returning home, his wife often becomes the "scapegoat" for his husband to vent his temper. When the husband loses his temper for no reason, the wife can either avoid it and let both parties calm down, or talk to him about what has happened when he is calm after the husband releases his bad mood.
Men should also understand that everyone has pressure at work, but the most important thing is whether you can adapt to this job. If you adapt, the pressure at work is the driving force for your progress. You will face it calmly and find out the source of the pressure. If you really don't adapt to work, you can consider job-hopping.
