Sexual activity is a must do for every couple. Some couples can enhance their relationship through sexual activity, while others may argue or even divorce due to sex. So, how do couples maintain good mental health?
To maintain mental health, two things need to be done well:
1. Mutual understanding and respect
Firstly, it is normal for both spouses, especially newlyweds, to have different requirements and understandings of sexual life due to various reasons. We should understand each other, respect each other, cooperate with each other, and gradually adapt to each other. We should not disregard the feelings and psychological resilience of both parties, act hastily, and impose on others.
2. Maintain a good mood
Secondly, it is important to maintain a good emotional and emotional state, and to maintain the integrity of one's personality in marital life. This is very important for maintaining the subject's healthy psychology and good personality. It should be considered that many aspects of sexual life also reflect a person's cultural upbringing, ideological quality, and psychological qualities. In the sexual life of couples, any behavior that leads to and strengthens the formation and development of the subject's abnormal psychology, although it may not harm third parties and society, reflects the subject's unhealthy psychological requirements and habits. This negative psychology should be corrected by continuously cultivating one's character, improving one's cultivation, and cultivating lofty beliefs.
These methods make your sexual life more harmonious
1. The long night requires a pattern
The night is too long, we need some tricks. If the performance is just a third line, even classic plays can make people tired. The aesthetic lies in the renovation of the patterns, and it is even more necessary to add a long string to the program list in the long night. In theory, being straightforward for several hours in a row is not so much about not being able to persevere physically, as it feels like being already bored. Of course, even if you want, she may not be willing. Because she is a fan of novelty, the only natural way to please is through boredom.
2. Sexual activity lasts only if it is fresh enough
Medical experts have found that fresh ideas always make people feel happy, easily arouse interest, and last longer. A brain scan targeting sexual activity has found that when artists or creators are inspired or emotionally engaged, their right cerebral cortex's blood flow increases, triggering sexual pleasure. Perhaps you should sit on the bed holding a guitar and sing together in the moonlight.
3. Sexual caressing stimulates hormones
When two people feel physically and mentally connected and have a great love for each other, the pituitary gland secretes a hormone that increases intimacy. Usually, the hormone content in women is higher than that in men, which can easily trigger intimate behaviors such as holding hands and touching. Although these may not be related to sexual desire, they can become a good bedding and lubrication.
4. Come for a massage during sexual activity
Mutual massage can make two people feel sexy, relaxed, and most importantly, feel valued and needed. Take a large towel or bed sheet and let the other person lie on it. Make sure your hands are hot, it's best to soak them in hot water for a while beforehand and apply some essential oil to create a better aroma in the air. Massage helps to understand the other person's body in advance and their response to touch, starting from the neck, followed by the shoulders and back. It can be rubbed, pressed, or lightly scraped, tapped, or pinched, paying attention to the other person's reaction. When it's your turn to be massaged, pay attention to various sensations, and you may be surprised by the reactions of certain parts of your body. During this process, what kind of stimulation will trigger a sexual response between each other? Write it down and reserve one more move.
5. Slightly using finger sex techniques
Fingers are very flexible, gentle, delicate, and tough, and these elements are definitely the most helpful things in sex. Yes, using fingers to flirt is quite flavorful. However, finger flirtation should follow several elements such as slow, slow, light, and stable.