Sexual Health
Three types of personality are unfavorable for sexual life, and one should strive to improve one's personality
Sexual activity is a concentrated reflection of a person's overall psychological quality. Many personality defects can affect the coordination and happiness of sexual life. That is to say, some people, due to personality flaws, are not only unable to have sex with their current spouse, but also unable to have fun with others. For such people, the most important thing is not to complain about the other person, but to blindly learn sexual skills, but to first strive to improve their personality. The most common situation is that some people are spoiled from a young age, always centered on themselves, lack the ability to understand others, do not know about life, should understand others' weaknesses and shortcomings, should forgive others, forgive others. Such people often strictly demand each other in sexual life, and once conflicts arise, they will fight ruthlessly and will not actively compromise and compromise, making it difficult to learn to compromise in a short period of time.
Due to the increasing number of self centered only children, this situation may become a common problem in the near future. The second situation is that some people have been living in oppressive family or social environments since childhood, and their hearts are filled with dark colors. They have two extremes in their sexual life. On the other hand, due to the profound sense of inferiority that others cannot perceive, they are too sensitive to all the expressions of their lover, always feeling that they have been sexually harmed, but they never want to express themselves to the other party. Because they often think it's begging.
On the other hand, in order to protect their sense of inferiority, they protect themselves from sexual attacks and all unhappiness and discomfort in sexual life by blaming each other and launching a holy war against them. Their common characteristic is frequent competition for power, victory conceals self-esteem, and indifferent protection of self-esteem. The third situation is that people have encountered various setbacks in their lives, and some people also lack sufficient sense of security during sexual life, seemingly always worrying about something. This often makes the partner feel powerless and completely unaware of how to be considerate and caring. Such people may not necessarily have low self-esteem, but they often do. In today's social environment, they are vigilant about the every move of their lovers in social interactions, afraid of third parties flying from the sky. Once they believe they have discovered a clue, they will use indifference or arguments to warn each other. However, in order to get them divorced, they were worried and didn't want to lose their current sense of security.