Contemporary people regard asexual marriage as today, often under too much work pressure, busy taking care of children, and ignoring the demands of the other party.
As boys age, confusion about male sexual function is more taken for granted, thus taking the opportunity to avoid sexual activity and ask oneself questions/ p> There are more and more instances where I am still booking asexual activities, and in many cases, even the couple themselves have not discovered the original asexual marriage. Therefore, I would like to first talk about how to be considered asexual marriage, and then talk about how to self heal. Asexual marriage is not without sex, but less than 10 times a year. In the past decade, from the initial refusal of domestic shame to the increasing number of people who want to discuss it clearly, I can say it confirms this historical period.
I have found many couples who do not engage in sexual activity, who come to the clinic to talk about their or their partner's decreased libido and male sexual function, saying that it is not related to themselves or that they are helpless. Some people feel guilty and even if their partner releases their sincerity, they are unable to increase their libido. Even to put it bluntly, everyone is like family (without chicken love), while Yoshisho speaks harshly without any shame; Another thing is that they don't have sex without it, they just make do with it, but having sex so deeply and without it is even more heartbreaking than not having it What exactly is the reason for this?
Everyone knows that some people do not have impulsiveness, but the proportion is very small. According to anonymous statistical analysis by the management center, at least 50% of people also have the habit of maintaining masturbation, followed by meeting suitable targets outside (15%). If we conduct a specific analysis of this reason, I believe that rescuing asexual marriage should start from the interaction with loved ones, rather than from improving happiness. You must first try the following three self healing methods: ● Stage 1. Invite the other party to see their sadness: Many people are always angry and burdened when their marriage or sexual experience is stranded, feeling that it will be better after a period of time, or overly confident in their willpower. However, in reality, the lover is not clear, and may even feel that you don't care. 2. Want to cope: Gently share your own experience and understand if the other party wants to deal with it together. 3. Use comfort instead of blame: In fact, both people are injured, without certain right or wrong, with different perspectives and obligations. Slow down and give each other some time. Perhaps the situation is not as serious as everyone imagines. To fulfill the service commitment of love and marital life: In the event of sexual confusion or asexual marriage, do not make hasty decisions. Try to return to the starting point of love, recall the service commitment of being together from the beginning, and give the other party and oneself a chance to restore.
Phase 2: Don't Train for Life: Ordinary couples will be eager to accept the results of hardening and male sexual function, which will actually cause greater work pressure and guilt. Therefore, it is recommended that couples undergo special training from a helpful perspective during the training period without grateful feedback. 2. Training of shared feelings: The foundation of communication is sharing, encouraging loved ones to express their sensitive and sensitive inner side, and expressing their concerns during training, which can greatly enhance mutual intimacy. 3. Assist the other party in repairing basic functions: by training the other party's difficulties
Stage 3: 1. Learning new methods: Lovers often lose their temptation and attention to each other due to prolonged interactions, leading to a decrease in sexual desire. Therefore, learning new methods such as oral sex, hand love, and caressing can reignite the passion of both sexes and help enhance each other's sexy and charming mentality. 2. Sensitivity and importance: The most important thing for a loved one is trust, believing that the other person is not easily harmful to oneself. To increase sensitivity, be more careful and stay for the other person, and be aware that the other person is a separate individual, and there must be some privacy protection and indoor space. 3. Highly valued: Ultimately, we strive to work hard and cheer for our loved ones, ultimately achieving the ultimate goal of being intimate and loving. Treating asexual marriage as an obstacle that lovers must overcome in their lifetime is a crucial thing, a circulatory system that frees them from obligations and guilt. The main secret is to take on the obligations that I should take on, rather than taking on too much or not at all.
Only help your partner handle things together, slow down those with high work abilities, or help them. The development trend between lovers is basically a strong sexual way to handle asexual marriage, and a happy married life can be accompanied for a long time.