Marriage needs to be maintained and protected. Maintenance means that a couple should maintain the heat of each other's feelings and make their lives as happy as possible; Protecting nature means not letting extramarital love destroy marriage. Because the appearance of extramarital love will directly destroy the relationship between husband and wife and break the marriage, it is very important to prevent extramarital love.
Don't touch the opposite sex too often
If you have long-term contact with friends of the opposite sex, it will inevitably spark "love". Therefore, when contacting with friends of the opposite sex, do not choose places that are prone to ambiguity, or in public places, treat each other as "brothers" and "friends" in their hearts. The content of the conversation is also limited to the care and greetings between friends, talk about work and study, avoid talking about emotional topics, and try to avoid long-term collision of eyes.
Enrich marriage life
Many married people have extramarital love, either because they have no fresh feelings about marriage, or because there is no emptiness and loneliness. If you meet a relatively agreeable opposite sex at this time, it is easy to step into the threshold of extramarital love.
So try to keep yourself busy, such as reading more books, listening to more music, or exercising more, and keeping a happy mood at all times, so it is easy to get rid of loneliness. For married couples, creating more fun for their lives will make their feelings strong and far away from the edge of extramarital love after divorce.
Put experience into marriage
After marriage, some men pay little attention to marriage because of the pressure of life and work. No matter how busy or tired you are, don't ignore your feelings about your family, because home is the place where you cultivate and live.
For example, how long have you not called your parents? How long have you not been gentle with your lover? How long have you not cared about your children's learning? Only by constantly reflecting on the relationship between yourself and your family can you have attachment to your marriage.