Post Date April, 15 2023
The party who cheats in an extramarital relationship suffers no less harm than the one who is cheated. Only by truly engaging in extramarital affairs can one experience the indescribable pain and entanglement. Usually, the psychology of cheaters is tightly bound by invisible pressure.
1、 The body and mind are burdened with heavy stones such as law, morality, responsibility and conscience
Extramarital love is an act of disloyalty towards a spouse and affects their children. For married women who have a strong traditional concept of marriage and family, have certain feelings between husband and wife, and have never had unfaithful behavior towards themselves in their extramarital affairs, the moral self-discipline of "do not do to others what you do not want" is still deeply rooted, making it difficult to treat their husbands and children with peace of mind, and often falling into a state of conscientious self blame.
2、 Long term exposure to lies can easily lead to psychological anxiety and fear
Extramarital love is basically negative, or rather intolerant, so whether at home or abroad, she has to painstakingly fabricate various lies to cover up extramarital love. Opportunities for exposure such as economic expenses, time arrangements, restless faces, subconscious reactions, and nighttime dream words cannot be prevented, and one has to use lies to prevaricate, often worrying about their lies being exposed. Long term lying left her exhausted and overwhelmed.
3、 Extramarital love affects the concept of love, making the relationship confused
In this extramarital affair, many women were genuinely in love, but the extramarital couple did not take it seriously and felt that maintaining their current extramarital state was good. The woman is puzzled by this and sometimes even suspects that the other person is playing tricks on her. This leads to confusion among women about their emotions, making it difficult to understand whether the person they love loves them or not, and whether the person who loves them is sincere. As a result, I became suspicious of love until I didn't believe it and stopped touching it.
