Our common ideal for marital life is a happy and harmonious family, with love between husband and wife. However, in reality, there are not as many happy families with hot wives and children. After being together for a long time, there are inevitably many obstacles in life that can affect the love between husband and wife. Once these obstacles are not faced squarely, it will inevitably lead to disharmony in family life. Happiness comes from having love and a home, and love and home need to be jointly created by both spouses.
Sense of constraint
After a man and a woman get married, both parties will have a concept of 'my lover is mine', which has an impact on the couple. The normal interaction between the spouse and the opposite sex will cause oppression and jealousy on the other party. This will make the lover feel constrained. This sense of constraint is precisely a common psychological state that people dislike the most. It is acceptable to do it twice at a time. Over time, it will naturally lead to conflicts between spouses, and the intensification of conflicts can only worsen the marital relationship.
Concepts
People always have psychological standards in their hearts, such as' what I like, what I like, what I dislike, and what is too harmful to do '. This mentality also has an impact on marital relationships. Birds of a feather flock together, and people of a feather flock together. If the couple's outlook on life, worldview, values, and love are the same, it can promote the harmony of the relationship. On the contrary, the relationship can only develop in the opposite direction. Once the other party is angered, the life of the couple will definitely be covered with a dark veil.
Sexual activity
There was once a survey that asked: How many times does a person want to have sex in a day? The survey results show that 54% of adult men and 19% of adult women say they want to have at least one day. In fact, the potential sexual pleasure of each person makes the stimulation of sexual behavior far exceed the reproductive needs. In fact, the root cause of sexual reactions is psychological rather than physiological. For example, some people are worried that they cannot give their wife an orgasm and are accused by their wife of sexual dysfunction, or that factors such as drinking alcohol, illness, excessive fatigue, medication, etc. may cause a low quality of sexual life. If a couple's sexual life is disharmonious and not taken seriously, they will eventually fall into the ranks of broken marriages due to sexual dissatisfaction.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)