A man is destined to fall in love several times in his life, and he gains experience through continuous practice to improve himself. The definition of 'specificity' is not that he can only love one person for a lifetime, but that every time he loves someone, he is wholeheartedly devoted.
1. Open minded, tolerant and patient
Such a man disregards past grievances, needs to be reasonable and forgiving, is magnanimous, and especially has a better understanding and understanding of his own woman, which will turn many conflicts into conflicts. Of course, this kind of man is consistent in appearance and appearance, not just a grandiose demeanor on the surface, but a small belly in private, which will inevitably lead to another extreme. When two people have a dispute, it is usually he who gives in first. He will patiently listen to you, and if you are right, he can admit his mistakes; Even if you are wrong, he is willing to forgive you. If you have something to say, you can speak well and not easily pull down your face. The expression on your face is violent. I won't lose my temper or get angry over a small matter, or abuse myself. In short, an open-minded man can tolerate many of a woman's shortcomings. As long as a woman does not go too far, it is always easy to maintain a relationship.
2. Losing is a blessing, with a peaceful mindset
There is no balance between men and women, and no one can guarantee that men will not suffer any losses in their marital life. Moreover, in the workplace, men also have the possibility of frequent losses. If a man always feels that losses are a disaster and should not suffer a little loss, he will haggle over every detail, worry about gains and losses, complain about others, suffer great losses, suffer small losses, and always have a bad mood, You will lose warmth, health, and opportunities day after day. Such a man will make a woman feel like walking on thin ice and trembling all day, and this kind of life cannot come to an end. On the contrary, if men can positively evaluate losses and believe that losses are blessings, they will make friends and gain insight through losses. They will often maintain a good attitude and live in "blessings" every day, so that women can rely on them psychologically and physically for life.
3. There's a bit of 'wife tube inflammation'
A man who is accustomed to showing his teeth and claws in front of women does not know how to respect them. Such a man can easily dishearten women. A good man who accompanies women for life should have a little bit of "wife's pipe inflammation". It is natural for a man to be considerate of his wife, knowing the cold and the hot, but when it comes to being afraid of his wife, not every man can do it. Fear "cannot be simply understood as fear, but rather as another way of caring. Because of 'fear', I no longer argue with my wife, but because of 'fear', I satisfy some of my wife's requirements. After work, buy groceries and buy an expensive new clothes for your wife. No matter how busy your work is, you always have to take some time to chat with your wife or take a walk. These are all concrete manifestations of 'fear', but they do not lose their masculinity. Think about it, does a man with "wife's pipe inflammation" dare to leave his own woman?
4. Likes sports and has a healthy hobby
Men with a certain sports hobby are more likely to find an outlet for their emotions and will not torment you with trouble. When they are with a passionate man in their heart, life will be full of fun. A man who has a health hobby in life will definitely give him a sense of vitality. He will not drink to relieve his worries in times of depression, nor forget himself in times of pride. A healthy hobby is the best way for him to vent his emotions. Therefore, men who have healthy hobbies and enjoy sports generally have good psychological qualities. Such men will not easily change themselves when living in a "fun" day.
5. Life is simple and kind-hearted
A man who accompanies a woman for a lifetime cannot be too poor, but no matter how wealthy he may be, he should still be a person with a simple life. Excessive extravagance of money indicates that he has no plans for his future life and pursues the luxury of "drinking now and getting drunk now". Once his career falls into a slump, he will fall into a slump, lose confidence and interest in everything, and hold a indifferent attitude towards the women around him. Men with indifferent hearts are generally hard hearted and do not know how to show mercy on women. Such men cannot provide women with lifelong support, and when their emotions are "smuggled", they face women's unbearable pleadings and walk away without turning their heads, making people die.
6. No resentment or regret towards emotions
A man is destined to fall in love several times in his life, and he gains experience through continuous practice to improve himself. The definition of 'specificity' is not that he can only love one person for a lifetime, but that every time he loves someone, he is wholeheartedly devoted. If he has had an unforgettable emotional experience and truly devoted himself to it, it can at least prove that he is a deep hearted and willing man to promise, and a man willing to share some of the responsibility for the breakdown of his relationship. Such a man, no matter how many times he has been in love, I think it is definitely not his subjective fault. Women who choose such a man, as long as the actual conditions are not so bad, can "start from scratch".
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)