Men always feel that a woman's heart is a needle in the ocean, difficult to figure out, especially when a man and a new woman frequently socialize, and even the two have had some kind of intimate relationship. However, sometimes it is overnight, or three days later, when they meet again, the woman's previous enthusiasm and later indifference often confuse men. These behaviors can easily lead to misunderstandings among men, and must be avoided!
Firstly, avoid physical contact
Some women may be strong girls with a slightly careless personality or childhood habits, often having physical contact with men, such as patting their shoulders or back, holding hands with men, hugging men, etc. More importantly, in bars, restaurants, and concert halls, some women drink with men at will, sit on their thighs, dance with men, and so on. Physical contact is the most misleading thing for men. Believing that women have a good view of themselves is meaningful. Although women don't like men, it's not that they mean it. However, men are very sensitive to sex. Unless they don't like women, a woman pats his shoulder and grabs his hand. He will definitely think this way, and this cannot be entirely attributed to men.
Secondly, avoid being overly enthusiastic
Some women are more enthusiastic and active, and they are easily misunderstood by men. For example, some women invite men to eat, sing, or go out to parties. Although some women may not have this intention, women's initiative can make men think that women like them, which is a hint, especially when women privately invite men one-on-one without explaining the reason for the invitation, the degree of misunderstanding will deepen. There is another type of woman who is very good at giving men a smile. When she meets a man, her face is filled with a smile, which lasts for a long time. Anyway, she is very enthusiastic. Such a woman thinks it is just a form of politeness, but usually makes men misunderstand and excited.
Thirdly, avoid wearing clothes that are too exposed
Some women's clothing exposes too much, especially their breasts and thighs. Wearing exposed clothing can lead to misunderstandings among men. On the one hand, men believe that a woman who casually displays her breasts and thighs must be a coquettish and lustful woman. Such a woman can easily trigger a man's desire and make him easily tempted. In addition, in some cases, men mistakenly believe that a woman's exposure in front of them is trust, suggestion, or even temptation. The logic of men is simple, and if you don't mean that, don't dress so little in front of men.
Fourth, avoid being too easygoing
Once a man and a woman have a relationship, it begins with verbal communication, possibly some flirtation, followed by invitations to eat or sing, and so on; Then there is intentional or unintentional physical contact, such as holding hands, patting the shoulders, and so on. The next step is to move the hand or face, embrace, and so on. These intimate contacts are a gradual process. If a man pulls her hand, pats her shoulder, and she shows no unpleasant behavior, men will mistakenly believe that the woman has accepted themselves, and they will develop the next more explicit flirtation and physical contact, embrace and kiss, touch the chest, and so on. So, if a woman doesn't want to have further interaction with a man, avoid some overly easygoing actions, otherwise it will cause misunderstandings.
If women do not want men to misunderstand, they must remember not to let men have some thoughts about themselves. Once a man has a misunderstood idea, women should immediately clarify it with him, so that he can understand and understand his meaning clearly, rather than further misunderstandings and unnecessary behavior.