1. Admiration
Teacher student love and idolatry both fall into this category. We only worship all the advantages of each other, probably because we want to have those advantages ourselves, so this is not parallel love.
2. Ambiguity
Many times, men like to chat with a woman in order to solve boredom and loneliness, and there are always ambiguous words in their words. We tend to indulge in this relationship, even thinking it's love. In fact, the reason why a man is ambiguous is precisely because he clearly understands that he will not give love. The man who can truly pay for love will not play ambiguous with us.
3. Physical attraction
Men always praise a woman's appearance, and both beauty and ugliness love to be called "beauty". A woman thinks he's in love with herself, but actually he's just in love with the woman's body.
4. The desire to escape
When we are under great pressure, we want to divert our attention, which is also the reason why we are most likely to have emotional problems in junior high school and senior high school.
5. Solitude
"We all inevitably feel lonely, but this is a problem that we should overcome ourselves. If we bring the problem into our relationship, it will only make us more lonely.".
6. Common interests
Sometimes you are just the best playmates for each other, sharing interesting things, and it's not a feeling of love that exists between the two of you.
7. infatuation
"Overglorifying the other person, not accepting their imperfections, and falling in love with them without reason are all part of infatuation.".
8. Compassion
"You may involuntarily sympathize with the other person's problems, thinking that you can bring salvation and help them change, but actually it is you who are dragging them down.".
9. A substitute for kinship
When the family cannot give us a warm embrace, love may become a substitute, blinding your vision of choosing a partner.
10. Short first love between young men and girls
This sudden feeling of liking the other person can disappear inexplicably and cannot last.
11. Revenge romance
When we are frustrated in a relationship, in order to prove our worth, it is likely to develop a new relationship, but then it will only hurt the other party or ourselves more, which cannot solve the problem.