Sexual Health
There are hundreds of ambiguous messages from my husband and female boss. What should I do
My husband and I have been married for seven years and our relationship has been very harmonious. My husband is very responsible at home. After work, he watches TV with me and shares happy things with me. Coach her daughter to do her homework and tell her stories before going to bed. I am very satisfied with this kind of comfortable life, which is free of pressure, restraint and comfort.
He cheated and covered it up naturally without any trace. Regardless of company entertainment or overtime, he always gives me a call to let me sleep without waiting for him. The gentle tone of voice makes me angry, let alone suspect that he is cheating. Such trust was trampled by him. I don't know when he and I have become estranged. Unexpectedly, I found a lot of ambiguous messages between him and a woman in her forties.
He was drunk that night and was sent home by his colleague. It was already one o'clock in the morning. Although he told me in advance that he came home late at night, he was still very angry when he was drunk. I was sullen and helped him clean up. His mobile phone text message was ringing all the time. I didn't intend to watch his mobile phone, but I couldn't help opening it.
I saw a message saying: "Baby, I'm sorry to ask you to help me block so much wine tonight! I will make it up to you!" What is this nonsense? After I read it, I was in a daze. Depressed, I continued to look at his mobile phone and found that they had been in close contact since last year. It had been more than a year. A lot of short messages have not been deleted, hundreds of them. From these news, I learned that the woman was the leader of her husband. She was in her forties and was five years older than her husband.
Looking at my sleeping husband, my heart can't calm down any more. How to mention it to him is too sudden. I can't help it overnight. We have been married for so many years, and our relationship foundation has always been good. Besides, our house, car and insurance are all my husband's names. Divorced, I can say I have nothing. I don't want to take advantage of him. What should I do with him?
Reply from the consultant:
Hello. First of all, you should analyze the purpose of the tangle between your husband and this woman, and whether he wants fame and wealth or excitement. You should be clear about this. In addition, what is your idea? He is cheating now. Do you want to continue your marriage or divorce?
I just saw the text message and didn't confront my husband face to face. The ambiguity in the office is very vague. Sometimes I can't explain it clearly. It may be just the mutual help in interests. Calm and calm is your right attitude now. After understanding his thoughts, if you have a divorce idea and are worried about property problems, you can consult a lawyer.