Many girls who are good at work or career always don't understand. How can they not be favored by excellent boys if they are so excellent? Even though I am about to enter the ranks of leftover women, I still haven't found a boy who can make me fall in love with at first sight? In fact, there are both clear rules and hidden rules in the workplace, and there are also clear rules and hidden rules in love. If girls don't know the hidden rules in the process of men choosing women, it's like blind people feeling like elephants. How can they receive signals without being on a channel?
In people's opinion, it is usually very realistic for girls to find objects, especially in the modern society where material desires abound. If a man has no property right marriage house, no private car, and no certain economic strength, it is difficult to be seen by girls. Some girls are not willing to marry a potential man even if they want to be the mistress and "mistress" of rich people. That is the hidden rule of girls. Who does the girl's heart open for? Don't come in without money! Because the current world is based on money, whose parents are willing to marry their daughter into a poor family. Therefore, don't criticize girls' pursuit of fame and wealth. Men should understand the cruelty of reality and strive to conform to the hidden rules of love.
Many girls don't know that, in fact, boys are also very realistic when looking for objects. Boys don't pay much attention to the girl's appearance and figure, but they are very serious about some things that they don't say.
1. Girl's past.
Men, like women, also like to investigate the past of each other. Men are not afraid that you have multiple love experiences, that you have slept with multiple men, and that you have had multiple abortions for other men. Such women have no purity for men. Moreover, women who have multiple abortions often affect the quality of sexual life and fertility after marriage. Therefore, Boys don't like girls who are too open or have rich experience in sex.
2. Girls now.
Men understand that both parties are good at camouflaging themselves in the early stage of love. Therefore, men are always cautious about their marriage partners, and sometimes play some careful tricks to spy on the girl's heart, so as to get to know each other more comprehensively and deeply. Therefore, don't be angry with girls. You are also trying to understand everything about boys in various ways. After all, there is a principle difference between choosing a marriage partner and choosing a playmate.
3. A girl's family.
Although boys don't pay much attention to the girl's family situation, they will have no hesitation if they identify it. However, there is a process to make boys identify you. Moreover, in the current reality of great survival pressure, the economic pressure of both parents will also be transmitted to the quality of life of the couple. Therefore, if the boy does not have the ability to support the woman's parents, and the girl does not have the ability, love can be, but after marriage, there will be great life pressure.
4. The girl's appearance.
In order to satisfy his vanity, a boy can choose to be a romantic partner with a sexy beauty, but he may not finally decide to be his marriage partner. After all, love is about time, but after marriage, he has to face daily necessities. There is an essential difference between a wife and a lover. The more beautiful a wife is, the more insecure a man will feel, especially in the real world of laughing at poverty and not laughing at prostitutes and sex wolves, It would be very affordable to marry a plain wife.
(Intern editor: Cai Junyi)