In today's society, both men and women have an open mind, and there are many phenomena of early love. These people are not limited to small details, and when they are suitable, they are together. When they are not suitable, they are separated. During this period, many women are harmed, and men may inadvertently hurt women's hearts. Do men know the top 5 behaviors of men hurting women?
1. Easily say goodbye
Some male and female students who are in love may initially develop a romantic relationship, but over time, they may experience a period of adjustment. When couples argue and argue endlessly, it's easy to say goodbye. Breaking up can have a great impact on a couple, and a man who easily talks about breaking up can make a woman feel very immature and unable to provide a sense of security.
2. Bring up the old story again
Girls like to talk about past events, but some men who are cautious often talk about past events. At this point, when couples argue, they will open up old accounts and attack each other, such as saying that their woman is not a virgin, or even feeling that it's difficult for me to find your former boyfriend. These words are very hurtful, and such a noisy way of arguing will only create greater conflicts between the two.
3. Play ambiguous
Some men are not naturally the kind of stable material, they like to pick flowers and grass everywhere, like to play with the opposite sex, especially after arguing with their girlfriends, they are more reckless in doing so. This approach not only won't make your girlfriend forgive you, but it can even damage the relationship between you. Once your girlfriend takes it seriously, you'll regret it too late.
4. After arguing, turn off the phone and play evaporation
Nowadays, young people are full of youthful energy, have a strong temper, and do not tolerate being bullied by others. Due to this reason, many couples or couples have disputes, and men like to turn off their phones so that the other party cannot find them. This is a common phenomenon after arguments. Men mainly want the other party to feel a sense of frustration when they find themselves, but in fact, this is not good for both parties. If the other party cannot find you, it will worsen your relationship.
5. Using fame and fortune to blackmail the other party
Nowadays, many male and female friends are not just friends in this relationship, some are for each other's money. If you let the other party know afterwards that you are dating her for her money, it will hurt her heart even more. But there are also people nowadays who don't care about the money and call them 'I'm just playing with you'. This is very hurtful. Everyone has dignity and cannot be trampled upon by anyone.
The above are all manifestations of men hurting women, but in fact, this phenomenon is common in daily life. Whether it's men hurting women or women hurting men, this is something every couple has experienced. Between couples and couples, both men and women need to understand each other in order to have a harmonious and fulfilling life.
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)