① He is open-minded, tolerant and patient
When two people have a dispute, it is usually he who gives in first. He knows how to express himself and patiently listens to you. If you are right, he can admit his mistakes; Even if you are wrong, he is willing to forgive you. If you have something to say, you can speak well and not easily pull down your face. The expression on your face is violent. I won't lose my temper over a small matter and become angry or self abusive.
② He knows how to respect you
He loves you more than he demands, he has his own opinions on himself, but he won't have too much opinions on you. He respects the various life choices you make and encourages you to develop your expertise. An important standard of modern good men is to respect all women, including those who only have a one-sided relationship.
③ His pursuit is very sincere
He doesn't belong to the type of opposite sex you really like, but he is very sincere in pursuing you, and the type you like, no matter how effective, is an example of failure. He has the advantages of your ex boyfriend, but he does not have the disadvantages of your ex boyfriend, and many people do not have the advantages he has.
④ He treats you with warmth and care
He is already very familiar. Although he no longer feels the heartbeat of passionate love, he does care about you more than anyone else. When you are in trouble, he always stands by your side and patiently listens to you pour out the bitterness; He remembers the name of a friend you mentioned; When you are thirsty, he gently hands over the tea... These silently convey the message that he truly likes you.
⑤ Your family and friends appreciate him
Elders have seen countless people through wind and rain, and their eyes are naturally more poisonous than yours. You are very picky about him, but he is able to win the appreciation of your friends and family. He knows how to make everyone feel relaxed and give people a sense of security. In terms of personality, he is not a very volatile person and will not make you find it difficult to grasp and get along with. ⑥ He made many requests that were beneficial to you
He has many demands on you, but they are all very reasonable, and these demands are good for you without any harm. Such a boyfriend truly loves you.
⑦ He has his own hobbies and sports habits
Men with a certain sports hobby are more likely to find an outlet for their emotions and will not torment you with trouble. When they are with a passionate man in their heart, life will be full of fun. A person who can find their hobbies in life will definitely give a sense of vitality to life.
⑧ He likes small animals and treats your pets well
Usually, such people have a heart. You can learn about his behavior towards pets from the way he treats them. Men who love animals will also take care of their family and partners. And a man who kicks and beats stray cats and dogs on the road has a violent nature.
⑨ It's safe to confide in him
He can communicate openly with you, he knows how to listen, knows when to speak and when to shut up. You won't be afraid to express yourself to him. When you separate your feelings and thoughts from him, you can feel safe. The foundation of good communication is trust, and in front of him, you are confident that you will not be ridiculed or hurt by expressing your deep thoughts. This is called a sense of security.
⑩ I won't ignore you because of my friends
He has a normal social circle, good friends who trust each other, and values them, but he won't leave you on the side for the sake of friends. He is able to think and act independently, rather than relying solely on his friends. And, without the need for you to speak up, he can clearly grasp the boundary between a girlfriend and a friend of the opposite sex.