After just experiencing a period of mixed passion, you still reminisce about every romantic moment during sex, but he turns over and sleeps, snores like thunder, or watches TV on his own. At this moment, is your rippling spring heart like being poured with cold water? According to Fox News, similar situations are not uncommon in daily life. The following are the misconceptions that experts have learned about after sex through extensive research, for readers to learn from.
Immediately fall asleep or go to bed separately. One spouse may have become accustomed to the comfort of "monopolizing" a bed and believe that sleeping in this way will not be disturbed by the other party. But after sex, it's important to make an exception and share a bed with your partner, or at least get intimate and whisper in the same bed for a while. At the same time, whether it's one or two people, immediately falling asleep after passion will compromise the charm of sex. Because in this way, each other will not have time to experience the satisfaction after sexual intercourse, nor will they be able to relive the passion during sexual intercourse.
If you sleep in separate beds, it can also make your partner mistakenly believe that all their previous enthusiasm was just for 'sex'. Going straight to the restroom is also a wrong approach. You may be trying to clean up, but in the other person's opinion, you are in a hurry to end this sexual encounter and not give them a chance to "do it again"; Or maybe you think sex is' dirty ', and even the other person's body fluids left on you are not clean. This situation is more common among women. In fact, basic cleaning before and after sexual intercourse is sufficient. The body has a "self-defense system", which does not open up convenient channels for bacteria due to the lingering sensation after sexual intercourse for a few minutes.
In addition, rushing to check your phone or immediately getting into work after sex can also make your partner think that when you were just passionate, you must have been absent-minded, which is why the battle ended so quickly; Is it not as important as a text message to have sex with each other? In the opinion of experts, doing so over time will weaken your partner's desire for sex, and even doubt whether your relationship can match external conditions such as work.