Women always feel that men do not understand themselves, and their hearts are filled with grievances and confusion; But do women truly understand men? Does a woman understand the reasons behind everything he does, including his psychology, body, and feelings?
In fact, the differences between men and women are reflected here. Men's psychology often involves bearing all the hardships and pains on their own, while women are more inclined to speak out, believing that not saying anything about men is hiding it. In fact, women don't need to think that way. It's normal for gender differences to exist. As long as communication is good and problems are resolved in a timely manner, they can get along very harmoniously. Let's take a look at what are the unique psychological traits of men?
1. They ignore you during the day but care about you at night
Don't blame them for ignoring you and even complaining during the day, it's because they have to bear the burden of the entire family and your future during the day; Don't blame them for showing you so much tenderness at night, even killing bones and soul, because they also need to rely on and comfort.
In fact, only in front of you can he appear so weak, and only on nights with you can he want to show his most genuine love for you. So, please don't complain, don't make a fuss, give him a good hug, and listen to him speak the world's most beautiful language to you.
2. Praise you after belittling you in front of others
This is not a man's vanity, nor is it a man's mischief. As long as you know, he also needs to have some decent dignity in front of friends and colleagues, and he naturally won't use irrelevant people to make such a derogatory remark, and you have become his least willing cannon fodder.
After nature bombards you, they will patiently comfort you, so please don't complain, don't make a fuss, listen to his praise well, and listen to him describe the most authentic you in his heart.
3. He is very filial to his parents, while your parents are waiting for filial piety
Don't blindly blame him for favoring one over the other. You need to know, after all, it's not easy to raise his parents after they've grown up. If he's still in the struggle stage, then when he's successful in his career, he will definitely give your parents more filial piety.
You should know that a man who knows filial piety cannot be too bad, so please don't complain, don't make a fuss, listen to his explanation well, give him some time to show filial piety to your parents. If he always does this, it's not too late for you to get angry.
4. When I say I love you, I laugh and when I hate you, I cry
When a man says he loves you, he may not necessarily love you really, but when he says he hates you, he must love you really. Therefore, don't always force him to say "I love you" more than three times a day. Such routine exercises will only make him tired and won't bring you any real results.
But when he says he hates you, you must not be arrogant or indifferent. Please don't complain, don't make a fuss, listen to his complaints well, and make him occasionally hysterical, just like he always puts up with your unreasonable behavior, so he will only show more affection for you.
5. Tired of you before marriage, tired of you after marriage
A man speaks sweetly and takes good care of you before getting married, but you may not be satisfied yet. After getting married, your position has changed. He is careless, no longer so gentle, no longer so considerate, but you always think of him.
If that's the case, please don't be in a hurry to complain or complain. You should know that this is just a necessary stage for love and marriage, and after marriage, he doesn't just have you in his heart. He also has a lot of problems such as family responsibilities, children's future, parents' retirement, and so on.
6. Don't ask what should be asked, don't ask what shouldn't be asked
Have you noticed that he is always very interested in your ex, and even has a lot of discussion about your current colleagues, while he seems indifferent to your work, your firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar, tea, etc?
In fact, you don't need to be in a hurry to complain or complain about why he is always so uninteresting. You need to convince yourself that he is caring about you and your marriage.
7. Usually, when you refuse to buy things, there is an abnormal urge to buy things
When you are very enthusiastic and actively discussing with him whether to buy the latest expensive cosmetics on the market, he may always pour cold water on you and sneer at you? And when you basically don't hold any hope, he takes the initiative to beg you to buy the evening dress you've almost forgotten. Please don't complain, don't be in a hurry to complain, because that's when his conscience finally realizes that dressing up as a wife is the truth of dressing up as himself.
Don't always doubt whether he has ulterior motives or done something to make up for you. Just know that if he doesn't care about you, he doesn't have to do it at all.