It has been nearly half a year since I left home for Ningxia during the Spring Festival. "We are a professional engineering team that has been running around the country for many years, where there is life, where we can stay at home for less than two months of the year.".
I don't know why, during that time, my heart was always flustered, and I was also absent-minded at work. What can happen? "I called my parents and both of them said it was great, making me feel at ease at work.". The daughter-in-law also sends text messages every now and then, saying that they are both safe with her little daughter. The captain saw that I was out of my wits every day and said that if I missed my wife, I would go home and have a look. Dozens of people in the team are all away from home. Who doesn't miss home? The colleague I'm taking a class with hasn't come back yet, but I do feel homesick and increasingly insecure.
The weather is getting hotter and hotter. Although the summer in Yinchuan is very cool, I miss the endless noise of cicadas in my hometown, the shade of trees in my own yard, and the way my daughter rolls around on the grass mat wearing small pants and bare arms, giggling.
I finally decided to go home. After packing up and embarking on the road to the railway station, I hesitated for a moment. Should I call my daughter-in-law? As long as the usual day is set for returning home, immediately tell her that you can have a hot meal when you get off and go home. But this time I decided not to notify her and suddenly appeared at the door to surprise her!
From Yinchuan to Beijing, and then from Beijing to transfer southward to the hinterland of the Central Plains - the small town where my family is located - my mood was surprisingly calm, without the tension of returning home as usual, nor did I feel that time was difficult to endure. Along the way, I drank tea and held a thick copy
"I read martial arts novels page by page, and when I'm tired, I sleep for a while and eat something.".
As it was getting dark, I got off at the bus stop not far from home. The town is still sultry and noisy, with men with bare upper bodies and dark skin resting on the streets. Watermelon skins and food bags can be seen everywhere.
It was already past dinner time, and when I smelled the familiar hometown style food floating from a distance, I suddenly felt hungry. I sat on the food stall and ordered a bowl of spicy soup and a plate of fried buns. While I was eating, an acquaintance came over and patted me on the shoulder, so I sat down to order beer and side dishes, drank and chatted, unaware that it was already midnight. The acquaintance was a bit too drunk and just babbling. I patted my luggage and said, "Brother, I have to go home!" He just woke up and said with a big tongue, 'You go back... You go back, brother has delayed your good deed...'
The night was dark and heavy. As I neared the door of my house, my heart thumped. I took out my key, carefully opened the courtyard door, and walked softly towards the West Room. The lights were on, and the flower curtains were tossed about by the wind. I tiptoed forward and saw my daughter-in-law naked in her own bed
I'm not homesick anymore, and I'm not jealous when I see someone else coming home
The man under her is my friend and my junior high school classmate Hu. To be honest, this scene has flashed through my mind many times. Men who are away from home sometimes have wild thoughts. Workers often joke with each other about whose wife has given him a green hat or something. It's just that I didn't expect such a thing to really happen to me!
At that moment, I felt a bit dizzy and blood was pouring up my head. I couldn't keep looking anymore, so I quietly carried my luggage and withdrew to the cool room. Turning on the light, I saw my daughter sleeping soundly on her small bed alone, with towels rolled aside and her small body all hanging out. My heart suddenly filled with various flavors and my eyes were moist. I snuggled up to my daughter and watched her innocent face, with thoughts swirling in my mind
"I can kick the door open and clean up the dog man and woman, but after the impulse, what will my daughter do?"?
"I found my own daughter-in-law. After so many years of marriage, she has been ordinary and indifferent, and she has never been involved in any fights.". Every time she comes home, she always lives with kindness. She takes her children with her and supports the door alone, which can be difficult and lonely, but she shouldn't do such things behind my back.
This Hu is a buddy I grew up with when I was young. When I was at home, I often came to visit. He also has a family and family. He built a house last year, and I lent him 60000 yuan. A friend's wife should not be deceived. How can he do something inferior to an animal?!
I couldn't figure it out. I kept my eyes open until dawn. I heard the courtyard door ring and saw Hu leave through the window.
When I entered the bedroom, my daughter-in-law was still lying down and saw me standing in front of the bed. As soon as I turned over, I climbed up and asked in a panic, "How did you come back?" I said that I had arrived home at midnight last night, and my daughter-in-law began to cry.
I said I saw it all. She cried and said that since last year, Hu has often come to her house, molested her many times, and given her overpowering drugs. After I left this Spring Festival, he slept in my house for 89 out of 10 days, and even if she was a woman, she couldn't beat him.
I didn't hit her, nor scold her, nor even settle accounts with that Hu. I'm wondering, is the daughter-in-law telling the truth? Doesn't she want this family anymore? Did Hu set up a trap for his daughter-in-law to pay off the 60000 yuan bill?
I can't think clearly, and I don't want to think any more. What can we do? It's not easy to find a job with a stable income now. It's not worth quitting your job for this matter, and it's even less worth causing human life.
"I stayed at home for half a month, and my daughter-in-law and I weren't talking and laughing as we used to. Her expression and body were on alert, and I could feel her alienation and exclusion from me.".
I went back to the construction site in Yinchuan, and I didn't tell anyone about it. At the end of the day, I held a book by myself while reading, but my heart was not quiet. My workmates told jokes, and my smile was forced. There was nothing that could really make me feel happy anymore. "I wake up before 5 o'clock every morning, and the alarm clock that used to wake me up every day is no longer useful..."
"Now that I'm not so homesick, I don't envy other workers returning home.". What's good about going home? That home and that bed may no longer be yours.
It's frustrating to encounter such a thing. I really don't know what to do!
Seven tongues and eight tongues
I don't think she did this because she didn't love you. I can only say that when you weren't around, a bad man gave her consideration and care, which moved her. She wanted to retrieve from him the shadow of your meticulous care for her when you fell in love... Women are sometimes very silly, too easily moved by a little care! If you divorce, she may not only lose you, but also her children, which is the hardest thing for her to give up. Leaving the children is tantamount to emptying her heart.
If the person who betrayed today were you, I think she would definitely give you a chance. Since she once fell in love, give her a chance to change—— Huayu
If premarital affection is love, then after marriage affection gradually transforms from love to kinship. Although it is also beautiful, it cannot replace the attraction of love. Women, first of all, are people with flesh and blood, emotions, and needs. Secondly, they are men's wives and children's mothers. She should not be anyone's private property or accessories. Some issues may not be fair to judge solely from a moral perspective. "I think it's better to think in a different way about this type of problem."—— autumn songs of birds and insects
I strongly approve of the young man's approach. "Take this matter calmly, my lovely daughter will know her father's difficulties in the future, and believe that good people will be rewarded."—— Rosa
I think it's best to speak up. The parties have a good talk together. "If the wife has an affair, break up as soon as possible, and don't let it affect her future life."—— reed
I don't know how many marriages in the world have similar situations! But once exposed, perhaps the only correct choice is to break up. The privacy of male and female relationships protects the apparent integrity and happiness of many families—— Hoh Xili people
If you can never forget the humiliation she has brought to you, and never give her a real smile again, then let's go. Learning to give up makes it possible to regain a new life - Johnson&Johnson
For a backyard that is already on fire, marriage is to some extent already in name only. Is it to give up the bottom line and blindly compromise, or to maintain the so-called dignity of men, categorically
Divorce? For the protagonist, taking his wife to work, or going home to watch his wife and children warm up, there is a lack of realistic possibilities. In the face of survival, these men who go out to earn money may only be able to seek the lowest cost solution, which is the practical law of life.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)