Post Date June, 03 2023
Many girls are prone to excessive sexual behavior. It seems that dating and one night stands are more common, and there are some single female college students in this group. Why are more and more people having sex before marriage? Let's take a look below.
1. The pursuit of trendy psychology
There are women who express the view that "true love should reflect vastness. Since I love him, I can give him anything." Love should give the loved one freedom, why wait until marriage It's already the 1990s, it's meaningless to be affectionate, I want to stay ahead of history. Under the psychological arrangement of following the trend, such women quickly transition from first love to passionate love, and from borderline sexual behavior to central sexual behavior. Enthusiastic hugs, kisses, and caresses stimulate physiological instincts, making it difficult for reason to resist.
2. The concept of advocating sexual freedom
In recent years, some young people have blindly advocated the concept of sexual freedom and have a strong self-awareness to break through the so-called traditional sexual morality. Therefore, some young women believe that "once they have matured, satisfying their desires is a physiological need
As their concepts change, their behavior also changes. When their love is still in a state of not knowing how to navigate the boat of life rationally, they are overwhelmed by desire and engage in sexual behavior that should not occur too early. Some have periodic relationships with their boyfriends, while others still maintain their relationship despite anticipating that they may not get married.
3. Satisfy one's sexual curiosity
In today's society, sexuality has hastily removed its veil of concealment. For some young women, it is no longer about "turning pale when talking about sex" and being shy to speak up, but about sexual desire as easily as about appetite. Many books and publications focus on introducing sexual organs and other content, but the introduction to sexual psychology and sexual moral education is very poor. In addition, with the increasing number of neutral aesthetic scenes in movies and TV dramas, scenes such as hooking shoulders, kissing and hugging on the road are constantly in sight. In this cultural atmosphere, young women have developed a curiosity about sex.
4. Thank you for your boyfriend's admiration
Although they also understand that female chastity is very important and should not be easily delivered, they cannot hold onto the defense line under the constant agitation of their boyfriend's love. Sometimes, due to the fact that their boyfriend is very attentive to them and provides them with great help in their studies and life, when they make sexual demands, they worry that refusing will harm their heart, and will meet their sexual demands to repay them.
5. Relieve boyfriend's concerns and engage in sexual intimacy
Some women think that their boyfriend meets their own requirements for choosing a spouse. He is a "handsome man" in fantasy. He falls in love at first sight and has the idea of "no shop after this village", so he is very active in the process of love. However, for some men, the more proactive the woman is, the higher their self-esteem is. In order to express their sincerity, some women are eager to marry each other with their own bodies, while others adopt this immature and irrational approach of "being able to tie a man's heart" and "locking in love through sex" to avoid being abandoned by the man.
6. To elevate a romantic relationship
Many young women use "sex" as a bargaining chip for love, believing that only sex can sustain and develop love. Some believe that having sexual intercourse before marriage is a procedural requirement and a necessary path for love. Having sexual intercourse in advance can confirm the relationship as soon as possible, elevate and deepen love, and strengthen the cohesion of both parties. Under this sexual concept, they sacrificed themselves too quickly.
7. Maintain a contractual relationship
Among the young men and women who have premarital sex, there are also many young people who are engaged, but they can't get married because of various reasons, such as no housing, economic hardship, not working together, and not reaching the legal minimum age for marriage. In order to maintain this contractual relationship, both parties often engage in sexual activity.
8. Refusal to resist environmental resistance
This is a psychological effect in the development of love psychology. Young men and women in love always hope to be recognized by those around them, especially their parents and friends, when they have established a romantic relationship. But if encountering unexpected interference, such as strong opposition from parents and various obstacles from family and friends, they will not only not terminate their romantic relationship, but also become more enthusiastic and intimate, using established facts such as "cooked rice" to resist these obstacles and seek recognition of their romantic relationship.
9. Satisfy vanity
In today's society, under the continuous impact of the commodity economy, some young women have a strong sense of vanity. Some women, in order to satisfy their own vanity, are willing to exchange sex for property, and even lead to "unclear origins" of pregnancy.
From this, it can be seen that women's pursuit of trendy psychology, advocating for the concept of sexual freedom, in order to satisfy their "sexual" curiosity, thank their boyfriend for their love, dispel their boyfriend's concerns, lock in love with sex, maintain the engagement relationship, understand their boyfriend's sexual function, resist environmental resistance, and satisfy vanity. These ten psychological factors can all lead to girls' "premarital sex".
