Post Date April, 15 2023
Men aged 30 to 35 are generally the most confused, with confusion about the future, loss of love, and marriage
Confusion about the choice of marriage and the burden of family responsibilities. Men's performance at work between the ages of 30
What are the specific psychological manifestations of a 30 year old man due to burnout?
1、 Difficulty in future planning
Many men are not clear about their own positioning before the age of 30 and have not planned their future well. Or because they are young and inexperienced, they think things too simply, or because they are young, they are somewhat frivolous. By the age of 30 or so, they have been walking in the workplace for six or seven years, seeing many things, changing people, and defining themselves more clearly. At this time, they urgently need to formulate a practical career plan. However, although quite a few of them want to reposition themselves, there are always some deviations and problems, or the positioning is vague, or the entry point cannot be found, or the implementation is inadequate. All of these have cast a shadow over their prospects for climbing higher.
2、 Love
"Standing at 30, not confused at 40", the so-called "not confused", can be understood in various ways, that is, no longer confused by emotions, no longer confused by emotions, no longer confused and confused by secular vanity, "No longer seduced by money and beauty (this sentence is purely explained to explain" not confused ". Our ancestors believed that people should be so" not confused "by the age of 40, but as a modern 30-year-old man, perhaps it should be" not confused "." of In reality, from ancient times until now, there have been several people who have not been affected by money and beauty. It is human nature to admire beauty, and there is no need to criticize it. However, modern people stress a moral bottom line, which is the "game rule" of society and family. To be honest, many men "break rules" in this regard. A responsible 30-year-old man is responsible for his family, career, and society, and generally does not easily destroy the happy family and successful career he has created. Although his career has not been successful, he will cherish his career because he knows that he needs to support his family and his wife is not very beautiful. He will also cherish his family because he knows that only she is the best for him and loves him the most. Most men in their 30s are single-minded in love, meaning that their feelings for their wives are single-minded. At this age, they no longer talk about love, because love has already turned into kinship. This is why some men retain this kinship and seek the so-called "late love" or "lost love". This is often the "patent" of some romantic men who have money or talent, which is of course beneficial to giving them everything "It's unfair to have a wife who did everything for him, because she was once beautiful and young.". Most husbands need a second love from their wives. This love includes family and friendship, which many female compatriots ignore. Please pay attention and let your husband love you again.
3、 Marital aspects
Men aged 30 have a very cautious and clear attitude towards marriage. Whether they are unmarried, divorced, or widowed, their consideration of each other is mature, and they generally do not rush or rush through matters. The reason why unmarried people have not married now is not that they are poor or stupid, but that they are somewhat more rational in some aspects. Of course, it is not ruled out that they have wasted their golden years by crossing their eyes. "But they can't be considered single from now on, because there are women of the same age and ideas waiting for them.". The reasons for divorce are many and complex, ranging from men who "break the rules" to women who "deviate", among others. However, despite their yearning for young girls, 30-year-old men are still reluctant to give up their original wives.
4、 Family aspects
Most men choose to be fathers between the ages of 30 and 35. After becoming a father, men feel more pressure in life, mainly financial pressure. "There are old people and young people. How can you get enough salary if you don't work hard? At the same time, men at this stage must spend a considerable amount of time and energy dealing with family affairs, making them unable to devote themselves to their work. Therefore, men at this stage are prone to various problems such as job burnout.".
It is a terrible thing for a man to reach the age of 30. Compared to other periods, men aged 30 are relatively tired and appear very tired in work and life. Therefore, 30-year-old men should learn to regulate various pressures by themselves.
